Wives of my male lovers are spoiling my fun.
Byline: Dear Coleen THE STRAIGHT-TALKING PROBLEM PAGE
Dear Coleen SOME men (myself included) like sex with straight men, but their bitchy, insecure wives often ruin what could be or has been a very good time enjoyed between two consenting adults.
Please tell me how I should feel. I am gay but prefer to be with straight men.
Coleen says IT doesn't matter if you're gay, straight or a hundred things in between, cheating is cheating.
Frankly, I can't believe you're angry with the wives and girlfriends for ruining your chances of having sex with their hubbies.
Are you expecting them to think, "Well, it's just another bloke he's having sex with and not a woman, so it's fine and he won't leave me"? You can't have a go at them. You know what you're getting into when you have sex with a straight, married man - he has a wife.
If you don't want that baggage and all that hassle, then you're going to have to get out there and try to find a sexually curious straight man with no ties.