The antidote to burnout.
We all know colleagues who develop that 1,000-mile stare. The demands of the job have simply overwhelmed their reserves. They are tapped out, done, baked, toast.
Joanne became one of those people. She ran a call center, having moved up from the phones to the corner office. She had nearly 200 people working for her, along with the attendant scheduling issues--absenteeism and high turnover--that mark these operations.
Spending eight hours a day resolving people's problems can be a burnout job. Yet Joanne was doing fabulously. She loved coming to work, solving the mini-crises that cropped up throughout the day, often turning out the lights when the hotline hours were over. She was the epitome of the "hands-on manager," and her people loved her for it. The days flew by, and Joanne was content.
Then Joanne was made the VP & general manager for all call centers in North America. Now she had four sites in two countries and nearly 600 people in her command. At first, Joanne tried to be everywhere at once, even though that was patently impossible. People in her own center became resentful as Joanne spent more and more time traveling or on the phone. Her admin developed a stock phrase when someone was looking for her--"She's in a meeting, and I am not sure when it will be over"--and must have been repeating it 25 times a day.
Joanne's replacement at her "home" operation couldn't fill her shoes. No one could, for Joanne had been the heart and soul of that operation. Performance numbers started falling--at Joanne's original operation and at the other three centers. She felt powerless to stop the decline as she ran from task to task, phone call to phone call, meeting to meeting, urgent page to urgent page. She longed for the days when work had seemed so fulfilling and enjoyable and actually wished she had never earned a promotion.
Joanne was succumbing to a mental trap: the overwhelming feeling of having a million urgent things to do and trying to do them all at once.
Energy-draining thought habits
Joanne's bugaboo was the assumption that keeping her mental activity high all day long was a good thing. She was proud of being busy-minded because it appeared to give her the vigor to fight fires and get the job done.
Not so. Busy-mindedness is an energy-draining thought habit. Others that dissipate the leader's inner resources also include such everyday routines as:
* Worry--the bigger the job, the longer the list of negative possibilities; unintended consequences easily grow at geometric rates.
* Anger--people make mistakes all day long; managers who take these personally will find much to displease them.
* Stress--putting pressure on ourselves or others is sometimes considered a motivational technique.
* Guilt--thinking we aren't doing all we can.
* Fear--constantly seeing the worst outcome as the most likely occurrence.
* Distraction--trying to accomplish two things at once.
* Smugness--bred of the arrogance of always having to be right.
The list is endless. Just as people are endlessly inventive in what they think about, they can be eternally creative in finding good reasons for thought habits that, when carried too far, lead to unproductive behaviors.
Accepting stress as the norm
Worst of all, we--like Joanne--have come to believe there's no other way. When someone asks a co-worker how he or she is doing, listen for how often the reply is along the lines of "Well, I'm a bit stressed, but otherwise I'm okay." Stress is an assumed feature of the American workplace mentality. It's so commonplace that the feeling isn't even remarkable.
Stress is exacerbated by thought habits that act like a clogged water filter in the mind; they lead to repetitive behaviors without much force behind them. Water backs up; action stagnates. But the moment the filter is cleared, fresh thoughts begin flowing from a wellspring of wisdom, common sense, creativity.
Each of us is born with a channel that connects us to that wellspring. It doesn't appear on X-rays, and we can never lose or even damage it. But it can get clogged up with all sorts of thoughts--memories, worries, judgments, assumptions, and so on.
From moment to moment, our channel can become more constricted or more open. The change is a result of our mood, our state of mind. In lower states of mind, such as confusion, anxiety, and despair, the channel narrows. In higher sates of mind, like calm, exhilaration, and inspiration, the channel opens wide.
Clearing our filters is a matter of recognizing the feelings associated with habitual thought patterns and then doing nothing more than simply not dwelling on them. The act of clearing our mind isn't a case of "doing something"--it's more a quality of just "being someone," someone present, in the moment.
David Pottruck, president and CEO of the Charles Schwab Corporation, talked about presence in an interview with Fortune titled "My Idea of Fun: Skiing" (October 6, 2003). "When I'm on the slopes, all I'm thinking is, 'Stay vertical.' At all costs, stay vertical! Seriously, I'm usually focused on sort of the challenge of the mountain....You don't have time to think of the mechanics--move your foot here, point your toe here. You're thinking of the rhythm. You're in the flow. It's such a wonderful feeling. You're moving with the terrain. You can't think about anything else or you'll fall."
In a low state of mind, it's hard to maintain such presence. Joanne began to recognize the effect on her state of mind as she struggled to master her VP role. First, she noticed the feeling associated with being "busy-minded"--as if a hand were actually pressing against her back, urging her onward from task to task. She also began to notice those periods when she was calm, content; the feelings associated with that mental state felt wonderful. And she started observing that this state of mind produced a flow of insights, gave her instant access to common sense.
Joanne began to change.
When she sensed a busy-minded mood coming on, she took preventive action--usually with a short break and walking around her building. She noticed that when she was tired, she slipped into busyness more easily. Sleeping seven to eight hours became a priority, and the TV went out of the bedroom. Joanne also noticed that hunger affected her state of mind, so she began eating regularly instead of skipping meals. Being around too many people jazzed her emotions, making it hard to stay present and quiet-minded during the day, so Joanne asked her admin to keep her schedule more open, limiting the length of most meetings to 30 minutes.
In a matter of a few weeks, periods of busy-minded thinking happened less frequently; Joanne started feeling much more productive and began getting more satisfaction in leading her people. The mood of the entire organization lifted; calls seemed to go better; people were much warmer and friendlier with each other and the customers. And they started letting Joanne know what a good job she was doing and how much they liked working for her.
Joanne had found her energy source, inside, waiting for discovery. She even looked 10 years younger!
Even more startling, though, was something she began to notice about six months after she learned to "see" the quality of her thinking by noticing her feelings. More on that next month.
Bob Gunn is the co-founder of Prescient Leaders, a consulting firm focused on executive effectiveness. You can e-mail Bob at email@example.com.
Betsy Raskin Gullickson was an EVP for Ketchum Communications and is now a leadership coach and author.
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