Q My boyfriend's family are [...].
QMY boyfriend's family are homophobic but he says that shouldn't affect our relationship and they'll come round.
They've known he's gay for 10 years but have had to face up to it with me as I'm the first partner he's taken home.
His sisters are all married and procreating like mad. There's a feeling I've led him astray.
I don't think we should see them until they accept us for who we are.
AYOUR partner wants you to be part of his family and his feelings should come first.
You have the power to influence this for the better by being warm and friendly - don't make him choose between you and his family.