Q I'M a gay man [...].
QI'M a gay man in my mid-20s and would love to meet someone to have a relationship with.
Most of the men I meet only want to have one-night stands.
I go to gay bars every weekend and get attention - but from all the wrong people.
I take some of them home with me but in the morning they just want to leave, or they don't call me. What am I doing wrong? ACHANGE your tactics. If you want to go to gay bars then aim for friendships.
It will take time, as the single bar arena - gay and straight - is geared to sexual liaisons.
Be a bit more choosy which means not jumping into bed with every guy you meet and hoping it will develop into a love affair. Relax a bit, don't get into situations you don't like.