I fear my once-a-week boyfriend is cheating; Dear Coleen THE STRAIGHT-TALKING PROBLEM PAGE.
Dear Coleen I'VE been with a man for four years and I think he could be seeing someone else.
We only see each other once a week and I always have to make the first move.
I've heard rumours that he's cheated on me but he denies it and then gets the hump and won't get in touch unless I make the effort to contact him.
It causes lots of arguments.
I'm on edge and all I do is cry. I don't know what to do about it any more but I do love him.
Coleen says ER, WHAT do you love about him? You've been seeing him once a week for four years. You barely know him. What's he offering you that's so good and what's he doing on those other six days? If you want more and he's not prepared to give you more, then you have to work out if you love him enough to put up with this indefinitely.
It doesn't look likely that you'll be able to change him or the situation. I think you have to recognise that you deserve better. You're obviously not happy, so you have to find that inner strength to walk away and give yourself the opportunity to find a fulfilling relationship with someone else.
I don't know if he's cheated but if he truly loved and respected you, he'd want to spend more than one day a week with you.
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|Publication:||Daily Record (Glasgow, Scotland)|
|Date:||Jun 17, 2015|
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