Dear Rachael: FAMILY OF NUDISTS! CASE BOOK STARKERS SHOCK ON FIRST VISIT.
IT can't have been the easiest "Meet the Folks" experience, Phil, but you did really well.
You have to respect other people's homes and beliefs when you are their guest, even if they live a very different life from your own. Tamsin's mum gave you the choice of keeping your kit on so it was good of you to try and join in with their naturism.
But you clearly didn't feel comfortable so explain next time you visit that you'd rather stay clothed. Don't worry about losing the urge that night - you'd been through a pretty stressful day and I'm sure that was all it was.
If you talk things through with Tamsin I'm sure that she'll understand.
1 TAMSIN has invited her college boyfriend home to meet her mum Sue - and he's shocked when she opens the door in the nude.' 2 TAMSIN explains that her family are all naturists and don't wear any clothes around the house but Phil feels very incomfortable.' 3 SUE explains that they understand if he wants to keep his clothes on. But he claims he's quite relaxed and heads to the bathroom to strip off too.' 4 HOWEVER, that night he feels so freaked out by the whole situation that he can't make love to Tamsin. He wonders how he'll react next time he visits.
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|Publication:||The People (London, England)|
|Date:||Sep 3, 2006|
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