Q I'M a 14-year-old girl and my problem is boys. Most girls look for attention from them, and I am trying to lose it.
I've never had a boyfriend, but I've had sex with four different boys.
I always ask them to use protection but I'm just seen as a sex toy, although they say they love me.
I asked one of them out and he said no, but he still wants to see me.
I enjoy it but I don't want to do it with him again until we are in a proper relationship.
What do I do?
A YOU should be the one saying no. Not just to the boy who wants to have sex with you but to all the other boys as well.
You're not stupid. You know they have no real feelings for you.
To be frank, the reason you get all this attention, as you call it, is because they know they can sweet-talk you into having sex.
They're not nice boys. They're male slags.
They're also abusing you because you're underage. So, do yourself a big favour and find the courage to tell them to get lost.