YOUR PROBLEMS: Dear Miriam.Byline: Miriam Stoppard I THOUGHT my work colleague liked me as we got on well. I plucked pluck v. plucked, pluck·ing, plucks v.tr. 1. To remove or detach by grasping and pulling abruptly with the fingers; pick: pluck a flower; pluck feathers from a chicken. up courage to ask her out but she didn't respond. I sent her a Valentine's card and she said it was sweet. I asked another colleague about her and he said she was subtly letting me know she wasn't interested. But that doesn't stop me thinking she's beautiful and adoring her so much it hurts. VTHERE are no magic spells to make a person suddenly love you. Love doesn't work like that. Love, when it's returned, is one of the most amazing a·maze v. a·mazed, a·maz·ing, a·maz·es v.tr. 1. To affect with great wonder; astonish. See Synonyms at surprise. 2. Obsolete To bewilder; perplex. v.intr. feelings you'll ever experience. It may help you to know the pain you now feel will be erased from your heart when you find someone who does love you back. You're mourning for what might have been - the relationship you had in your head with her, not one based on reality. You don't have the comfort of being able to pick faults in her because, in your imagination, she's perfect. Believe me, the fact she doesn't want you isn't a reflection on your loveableness. The only thing to do is to move on and find another girl. A relationship with someone who does want you and who returns your love will be far more rewarding than an unrequited relationship. Don't let unrequited love This article may contain original research or unverified claims. Please help Wikipedia by adding references. See the for details. This article has been tagged since September 2007. ruin you and keep you from finding a fulfilling relationship. |
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