Why "balance" is B.S.: for CEOs, blending work and home makes sense.It's no surprise that, at least by conventional or "normal" standards, the schedules of most CEOs are decidedly not in balance. Take my average day: By 7 a.m: (PST PST Paroxysmal supraventricular tachycardia, see there ) I've already talked to a dozen people, had several meetings or am en route to meet with a customer in another city or state. All day long I have a cell phone ringing, a Black-Berry buzzing, dozens of emails going back and forth and a laptop never far away so I can review longer documents on my "downtime The time during which a computer is not functioning due to hardware, operating system or application program failure. ." I am in constant contact with my assistants to arrange dinner meetings and breakfasts and customer call trips. The next day I get up at 4 a.m. and do it all over again.
Not for the faint at heart, "CEO (1) (Chief Executive Officer) The highest individual in command of an organization. Typically the president of the company, the CEO reports to the Chairman of the Board. Time" is a zone of operations in which the switch-board is always open. And with so much riding on our ability to get things done--shareholder wealth, employee livelihood, the company's well-being--it has to be. How could a company function if its CEO left every night at 6 p.m. sharp for dinner or insisted that he or she could not be reached at home before 6:30 a.m. or after 10 p.m.?
Yet the press' obsession with work/life balance paints CEOs as sad, type-A, stressed out creatures who lack balance and are suffering terribly as a result. Frankly, I'm sick and tired of articles written in the tone of a nit-picking mother-in-law, focusing on the atrocity that is today's out-of-balance professional. What the "life coaches" and psychologists don't understand is that CEOs can achieve balance, but it won't be the same brand espoused by the self-help gurus.
That's why chief executives need to redefine Verb 1. redefine - give a new or different definition to; "She redefined his duties"
define, delimit, delimitate, delineate, specify - determine the essential quality of
2. the concept of balance for themselves. They need to decide what it means to them on a personal, individual level, and then judge whether they've achieved it on a given day. There's a fairly easy, intuitive way to gauge when we are in balance: We tend to be happy, enthusiastic and full of gratitude, as opposed to rushed, angry and unfulfilled.
Achieving a CEO-style balance requires some thinking outside convention. The first rule is to let personal and professional lives overlap. Instead of "balance" I talk about "blending." Sounds heretical he·ret·i·cal
1. Of or relating to heresy or heretics.
2. Characterized by, revealing, or approaching departure from established beliefs or standards. , but for CEOs, maintaining that kind of church and state just isn't realistic--and may not be very productive. Overlapping the different pockets of your life can actually have benefits even beyond time management.
A friend of mine, Dr. Ajit Singh For the founder and chief of the political party Rashtriya Lok Dal in Uttar Pradesh, India, see Chaudhary Ajit Singh.
Ajit Singh was the Maharaja of Marwar Jodhpur Rajasthan and the son of Maharaja Jaswant Singh. , CEO of the Oncology oncology /on·col·o·gy/ (ong-kol´ah-je) the sum of knowledge regarding tumors; the study of tumors.
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first about their dad's work life, and gained exposure to different cultures across the globe.
The second rule is to outsource everything. I don't have kids, but I do have a "nanny"--for me. As my home assistant, she runs the house and she runs me outside the office. I also schedule everything--yoga, haircut Haircut
1. The difference between prices at which a market maker can buy and sell a security.
2. The percentage by which an asset's market value is reduced for the purpose of calculating capital requirement, margin, and collateral levels.
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Informal repayment or loan forgiveness arrangement between a borrower and creditors.
1. The process of a debtor's meeting a loan commitment by satisfying altered repayment terms. . If it's in my planner, I'll do it. If it's not, that slot will be taken up with another appointment, usually business-related.
The last rule is to ignore everyone, except yourself, for some period of time outside the office. Surrounded constantly by external voices, CEOs can benefit from regular time devoted to listening to themselves and meditating on their lives, the compromises they make and whether it's all worth it. If it is, that needs to be positively reaffirmed on a regular basis.
Blurring the borders of personal and professional relationships is seen as the plague of the out-of-balance professional. But if it creates joy in our lives, then let's stop stressing out about trying to follow the conventional wisdom of separating our lives into "perfectly balanced" compartments. The problem in today's world isn't that our personal, professional and community lives are too connected--it's that they aren't connected enough. It's about blending, not balance.
Keith Ferrazzi is CEO of Ferrazzi Greenlight, a sales and marketing consulting and training firm in Los Angeles Los Angeles (lôs ăn`jələs, lŏs, ăn`jəlēz'), city (1990 pop. 3,485,398), seat of Los Angeles co., S Calif.; inc. 1850. , and author of Never Eat Alone (www.nevereatalone.com).