Too much of a good thing? A different dose of self-help.Do self-movement books really help to improve our lives? Not at all, according to according to prep. 1. As stated or indicated by; on the authority of: according to historians. 2. In keeping with: according to instructions. 3. Paul Pearsall, Ph.D., a clinical neuropsychologist Neuropsychologist A clinical psychologist who specializes in assessing psychological status caused by a brain disorder. Mentioned in: Post-Concussion Syndrome . In his book, The Last Self-Help Book You'll Ever Need: Repress re·press v. 1. To hold back by an act of volition. 2. To exclude something from the conscious mind. Your Anger, Think Negatively, Be a Good Blamer, and Throttle Your Inner Child (Basic Books; $14.95), Pearsall suggests that many of the generic, feel-good, pop psychology messages offered on bookshelves actually do readers more harm than good. Considering his book is also found in the self-help section, Pearsall's title seems contradictory on the surface. But he contends that most self-help books promote an unhealthy self-absorption and urge readers to be blindly optimistic op·ti·mist n. 1. One who usually expects a favorable outcome. 2. A believer in philosophical optimism. op in the face of life's challenges. He maintains that conventional motivational wisdom tells us never to lose hope, to refrain from being judgmental judg·men·tal adj. 1. Of, relating to, or dependent on judgment: a judgmental error. 2. Inclined to make judgments, especially moral or personal ones: , to believe in the premise of "unlimited personal power," and to strive for ever-higher levels of self-esteem. Citing scientific evidence to the contrary, Pearsall dismisses these and other platitudes as "McMorals"--mass-produced advice unsubstantiated by research from self-styled gurus who attempt to package fast fixes to serious problems that affect people in uniquely complex ways. In short, they fail to deliver "meaning, comprehension, and management." Pearsall is not opposed to seeking counsel through motivational/self-help books per se, but he is adverse to the often-cliche, glass-always-full, eternally optimistic outlook that most books of the genre offer. He writes that such thinking is not always prudent or helpful to people in challenging situations. Some people may benefit more from an "all things are possible" kind of thinking, and that's fine. Others, however, may want a more "don't tell me it's partly sunny when I see that it's partly cloudy Partly Cloudy is an industrial band based in Hollywood, California. Band members
2. It is a general rule that extrinsic evidence cannot be admitted to contradict, explain, vary or change the terms of a contract or of a motivation. At best, this book attempts to reach those people by offering another perspective and encouraging readers to make informed decisions. Pearsall proposes maintaining a more realistic mindset mind·set or mind-set n. 1. A fixed mental attitude or disposition that predetermines a person's responses to and interpretations of situations. 2. An inclination or a habit. when confronted with obstacles; for example, making necessary judgment calls and knowing when to throw in the towel. He details how to accomplish both by exploring research, drawing on client case studies from his clinical psychology practice, and challenging popular self-help authors by name. Pearsall's work presents a refreshing departure from typical offerings. The best way to put Pearsall's advice to good use is to consider your individual situation and be honest about it. As with anything, take what works for you and discard what doesn't, whether it comes from him or the next motivational guru of the moment. For more information log on to www.blackenterprise.com/books. |
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