The comeback kid. (Executive Health Package).IN THE EARLY '90s, ANTHONY MARTIN OF JERSEY City, New Jersey, was on the Wall Street fast track A financial advisor at the New York City New York City: see New York, city. New York City City (pop., 2000: 8,008,278), southeastern New York, at the mouth of the Hudson River. The largest city in the U.S. investment banking firm Josephthal, he enjoyed the life of a well-paid, single Wall Street executive. Now a consultant for investment firm Maxim Group L.L.C., Martin shares how what he thought was a stomach ailment ail·ment n. A physical or mental disorder, especially a mild illness. threatened his life and almost derailed his career. In 1995, I found out that I had a health problem. I worked many hours. I would travel [and] hang out. I began having difficulty digesting food. The food would regurgitate re·gur·gi·tate v. 1. To rush or surge back. 2. To cause to pour back, especially to cast up partially digested food. re·gur while I slept. [Choking] actually became a blessing in disguise, because it was at that point that I went to the doctor. It had been going on for a month. They discovered something in my kidney area. After the MRI 1. (application) MRI - Magnetic Resonance Imaging. 2. MRI - Measurement Requirements and Interface. , they confirmed that there was a tumor--cancer. You know something? [That] wasn't the reason I was regurgitating. The doctors wanted me to have surgery right away. But I wanted to finalize things in the office. That's the state of mind I was in. My manager and the firm were very supportive. The surgery was successful. They removed my kidney and the surrounding lymph nodes Lymph nodes Small, bean-shaped masses of tissue scattered along the lymphatic system that act as filters and immune monitors, removing fluids, bacteria, or cancer cells that travel through the lymph system. . I was out for about two months. I lost a tremendous amount of business. People who knew me--but not my colleagues at the firm--went after my clients in a very nasty way. One individual contacted one of my customers, who was also a good friend, and told him that I was very sick and was dying. That bothered me more than anything else. I ran into other complications that kept me in and out of the office for three to four years, and I occasionally have a problem with one of my legs, which can be very painful. During this time, it was difficult to generate more assets because my clients didn't know whether I was going to be in or out of the office. Some clients were completely understanding and supportive. I did lose a few friends, however. I changed everything after surgery. I only eat fish, kidney beans for protein, and a lot of salads. I drink nowhere near what I used to. I have one kidney. I joined a gym. I spend a lot time getting in touch with who I am and I'm more selective about the company I keep. There were a lot of people in my life who didn't have my best interests at heart. I consider that to be just as much of a cancer as the cancer itself. I took control of my life and of the people, the food, and the places I go. I don't worry about the cancer reoccurring. If it does, I'll fight it like I did the last time. I don't fold easy. MAKING A COMEBACK * Seek Counseling: There are professional services (job) professional services - A department of a supplier providing consultancy and programming manpower for the supplier's products. that can help with the anxiety associated with a health crisis. For example, the Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center The Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center (MSKCC) in New York City is a cancer treatment and research institution founded in 1884 as the New York Cancer Hospital. The main campus is located at 1275 York Avenue, between 67th and 68th Streets, with other locations in New (www.mskec.org) offers a Post-Treatment Resource Program, which provides group and individual counseling. * Know your rights: Not everyone returns to a supportive work environment after an illness. Federal legislation, such as the Rehabilitation rehabilitation: see physical therapy. Act and the Americans with Disabilities Act Americans with Disabilities Act, U.S. civil-rights law, enacted 1990, that forbids discrimination of various sorts against persons with physical or mental handicaps. , offers some protection (800-514-0301). If you've been discriminated against, file a complaint with the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (800-669-4000). |
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