The Advocate poll.

Q. Do you "cover"--refrain from showing affection for your partner--when you're traveling or out in public together?

yes 65%
no 30%
unsure 5%

How readers responded to the Advocate.com poll question featured in the November 7 issue of The Advocate

* "Even though society is becoming more and more accepting of us every day, there are still a lot of people out there who wish us harm. And my boyfriend knows I love him; he doesn't need me holding his hand when we go out to prove it."

* "No, I do not cover--and why should I? There comes a time in a person's life to take a stand against any kind of fear."

* "Yes, I do. And I hate it. So I've decided not to 'cover' anymore. If the situation calls for a kiss, I'll kiss her! If we're walking in the park, I'll hold her hand!"

* "I have to grit my teeth when I remember to refrain myself. I do refrain, though, not because of 'them' but because the guy I'm with gets uncomfortable, which tends to ruin the moment."

* "I have recently come out as a bisexual woman. While I was with my female partner I did not 'cover,' but while I briefly dated a man, I did. I felt uncomfortable showing affection with him in public for fear of being labeled a traitor to the lesbian community."

* "Only when we're in Texas."

* "Life is too short to allow others to determine how you will live your own life!"