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TEEN HELPS OTHER KIDS SURVIVE VIOLENCE.


Byline: DENNIS McCARTHY Dennis McCarthy may refer to:
  • Dennis McCarthy (composer), (born 1945), an American composer
  • Dennis McCarthy (congressman), (19th century) Lieutenant Governor of New York in 1885
  • Dennis McCarthy MBE (radio presenter), British radio presenter
 

Odds and ends from around the Valley:

The yellow school bus pulls up in front of the Van Nuys courthouse complex every Tuesday and Thursday morning to drop off only one student at the school of hard knocks The School of Hard Knocks is an idiomatic phrase meaning the (sometimes painful) education one gets from life, often contrasted with formal education. It is a phrase which is most typically used by a person to claim a level of wisdom imparted by life experience, which they consider .

Her name is Mindy Luvisi, and her classroom is on the first floor of the new Marvin Braude Marvin Braude (August 11, 1920—December 7, 2005)served as Los Angeles City Councilman for the 11th district from 1965 to 1997. At various times Mr. Braude (pronounced BROW-dee) served as chair of the Finance and Revenue Committee, the Environmental Quality and Waste  Municipal Building in Room 151 - the City Attorney's Office.

This is where the 17-year-old senior at Valley Alternative Magnet School has spent the past five months settling an old score.

While victim advocates Rosa Prendiz and Belkys Ervin help battered mothers and other victims of domestic abuse get their day in court, Mindy helps their kids.

She knows a little something about the hidden scars they're carrying. When she was turning 12, her father was assaulted by a man who cut in line in front of them at a supermarket coin machine.

Mindy was holding her piggy bank filled with change she was going to turn into paper money to buy a bike for her birthday. The guy didn't care. He pushed past Mindy and her father, George Luvisi, who complained.

``When we got outside in the parking lot, he attacked me,'' George Luvisi says. ``Mindy went screaming into the market to get help.''

No one helped. Mindy watched her battered father being taken away in an ambulance, and never forgot the feeling of fear and helplessness.

When the chance came to help other kids who have witnessed domestic abuse and random violence, Mindy jumped at it.

``We needed the help because so many times the victims have large families with a lot of children who come with them,'' Prendiz said.

``Mindy stepped right in, and knew exactly what to do. She read them books and just hugged and held them to calm their fears.''

She knows how important that is, Mindy says.

``All I want to do is help these kids and make them feel better right now because it's a scary time in their lives,'' she said Thursday, waiting for the yellow school bus to pull up in front of the courthouse complex at 12:30 p.m. to take her back to school for her afternoon classes.

The graduating honor student is bound for the University of California, Davis The University of California, Davis, commonly known as UC Davis, is one of the ten campuses of the University of California, and was established as the University Farm in 1905. , but it's doubtful she'll have a college class that's more gratifying grat·i·fy  
tr.v. grat·i·fied, grat·i·fy·ing, grat·i·fies
1. To please or satisfy: His achievement gratified his father. See Synonyms at please.

2.
 and valuable than the one at the school of hard knocks, she says.

Another graduate who deserves special recognition this month is the Comeback Kid - Kristina Lopez - who graduated magna cum laude last week from California State University, Northridge CSUN offers a variety of programs leading to bachelor's degrees in 61 fields and master's degrees in 42 fields. The university has over 150,000 alumni. It's also home to a summer musical theater/theater program known as TADW (TeenAge Drama Workshop) that leads teenagers through an .

If you've been reading this column for awhile, you remember Kristina. In 1998, epileptic seizures turned her life upside down, turning the popular cheerleader and honor student at St. Genevieve's High School in Panorama City into a social outcast.

She had to leave the Catholic school in her junior year for home schooling because the seizures were coming more frequently and violently.

At the homecoming football game that year, Kristina's cheerleader friends asked her to come down from the stands to be with them on the sidelines On the sidelines

An investor who decides not to invest due to market uncertainty.


on the sidelines

Of or relating to investors who, having assessed the market, have decided to avoid committing their funds.
 at halftime.

School administrators saw her on the sidelines, and told her she had to leave immediately because only enrolled students were allowed on the sidelines. This to a girl who was an honor student, cheerleader, and had been going to the school since kindergarten. Cold.

Hurt and embarrassed, Kristina ran away in tears. Her parents and friends found her sitting alone, crying under the bleachers - wondering what she had done wrong except get sick.

After an operation to remove her brain's right temporal lobe temporal lobe
n.
The lowest of the major subdivisions of the cortical mantle of the brain, containing the sensory center for hearing and forming the rear two thirds of the ventral surface of the cerebral hemisphere.
 to end her seizures, Kristina went on to graduate with honors from Granada Hills High.

She was taking night classes at CSUN CSUN California State University Northridge  and working with special-needs kids during the day at Hart Elementary School in Canoga Park when she had another epileptic epileptic /ep·i·lep·tic/ (ep?i-lep´tik)
1. pertaining to or affected with epilepsy.

2. a person affected with epilepsy.


ep·i·lep·tic
n.
One who has epilepsy.
 attack in 2003.

Again, the Comeback Kid fought her way back from another brain operation. Not only did Kristina graduate with honors last week, but she received a fellowship to the doctorate program at CSUN to get her Ph.D. in developmental psychology developmental psychology

Branch of psychology concerned with changes in cognitive, motivational, psychophysiological, and social functioning that occur throughout the human life span.
.

``I think my brain operations made me smarter,'' she said Thursday, laughing - getting ready for the big graduation party her proud family is throwing her this weekend.

Way to go, kid.

I don't know Don't know (DK, DKed)

"Don't know the trade." A Street expression used whenever one party lacks knowledge of a trade or receives conflicting instructions from the other party.
 what my favorite southern belle, Henriette Eiseman, is taking these days, but I want some of it.

Next week, she turns 100 - still volunteering at the Valley Presbyterian Hospital gift shop a few days a week and flirting with all the guys in that slow southern drawl drawl  
v. drawled, drawl·ing, drawls

v.intr.
To speak with lengthened or drawn-out vowels.

v.tr.
 of hers.

The first time I met Henriette, she was only 90 and holding down three volunteer jobs six days a week. We got to talking about being tired at the end of the day.

I asked her how she ended hers - with a little warm milk, decaf de·caf  
n. Informal
Decaffeinated coffee.



decaf adj.
 coffee or tea like most people.

Henriette said she preferred a Bloody Mary. It was love at first sight.

Happy 100th, darlin'.

And finally, the next care package assembly for the troops from Operation Gratitude has been changed from this weekend to the weekend of June 18-19, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the California Army National Guard The California Army National Guard is a component of the California National Guard, the United States Army and the United States National Guard. The California Army National Guard is composed of about 20,000 soldiers.  Armory, 17330 Victory Blvd., in Van Nuys.

As always, volunteers are welcome. For more information on the wish-list items needed for the troops, log on to www.operationgratitude.com.

Dennis McCarthy, (818) 713-3749

dennis.mccarthy(at)dailynews.com

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High school senior Mindy Luvisi, 17, is seen off by city attorney victims advocate Rosa Prendiz as she leaves for afternoon classes at Valley Alternative Magnet School after working with children touched by violence.

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