Sex & sensibility.The first victim of the gender wars is common sense. In 1997, a study claiming to explain why boys will be boys and girls boys and girls mercurialisannua. will be girls sparked a revealing outcry. British scientists had been studying girls with Turner's Syndrome Tur·ner's syndrome n. A congenital condition of females associated with a defect or an absence of an X-chromosome, characterized by short stature, webbed neck, outward-turning elbows, shield-shaped chest, sexual underdevelopment, and amenorrhea. ; these girls have one X chromosome X chromosome One of the two sex chromosomes (the other is Y) that determine a person's gender. Normal males have both an X and a Y chromosome, and normal females have two X chromosomes. instead of two, and they tend to be insensitive and socially inept. As Time put it, "They act, in other words Adv. 1. in other words - otherwise stated; "in other words, we are broke" put differently , a lot like boys." Most daughters inherit an X chromosome from each parent. The study found that the Turner's Syndrome girls who got their single X from their mothers - as all boys do - were far more anti-social than girls with a paternal X. The researchers speculated that a social adjustment gene linked to the X chromosome is activated only if the X comes from Dad and thus is active only in girls. "Experts Say Men Are Programmed to Behave Badly; 'Social Gene' Makes Lasses Nicer Than Lads," cried the headline in a London tabloid. "Preposterous," scoffed feminist writer Susie Orbach in the more highbrow high·brow adj. also high·browed Of, relating to, or being highly cultured or intellectual: They only attend highbrow events such as the ballet or the opera. n. , left-leaning British daily The Guardian. "Gender roles are culturally prescribed - they've nothing to do with genetics." But were either of these sweeping statements grounded in reality? On a standardized index of anti-social behavior reported by parents, the average score for Turner's girls with a maternal X was nine out of 24. But if the "social gene" theory is right, Turner's girls who get their single X from their fathers should have been as socially skilled as normal girls. Yet boys and Turner's girls with a paternal X both averaged about 4 on the anti-social index. Normal girls had an average score of 2. There was also a good deal of overlap among the scores of normal children: Three out of 10 boys were as nice as five out of 10 girls. That's a difference, to be sure, and quite possibly a genetic one - but hardly one that indicates men are from Mars and women from Venus. The Two Poles of Sex The "social gene" brouhaha is all too typical of how we now talk about sex differences: Biology is either everything or nothing; men and women are identical or polar opposites. Many feminists absolutely refuse to allow that some of the gender-based inequalities they deplore de·plore tr.v. de·plored, de·plor·ing, de·plores 1. To feel or express strong disapproval of; condemn: "Somehow we had to master events, not simply deplore them" may be due in part to innate differences. Many conservatives just as dogmatically invoke sex differences, often distorted or magnified beyond recognition, to condemn any departures from traditional roles. Neither side has much patience for the complexities of real life or for the variety of real people. For example, in an August 1995 New York New York, state, United States New York, Middle Atlantic state of the United States. It is bordered by Vermont, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and the Atlantic Ocean (E), New Jersey and Pennsylvania (S), Lakes Erie and Ontario and the Canadian province of Times op-ed piece, conservative writer Danielle Crittenden Danielle Ann Crittenden (born April 20, 1963, Toronto, Canada), a Canadian author and journalist. She is the daughter of Max Crittenden, a former editor with the now-defunct Toronto Telegram, and her mother is magazine writer Yvonne Crittenden. argued that men's "genetic wiring" makes them immune to "the mental strain of walking out the door" that working mothers suffer. Irate readers dismissed this as absurd and asserted that any such feelings arise from "cultural conditioning." It is hardly absurd to think that the parent who gives birth may have a biological predisposition to be more attached to the baby. On the other hand, a biological predisposition is not a universal imperative. Men thrust into a "Mr. Mom" role because they are out of work when the baby arrives often feel heartbroken when they have to walk out the door. These extremes - polarity vs. sameness - are entrenched en·trench also in·trench v. en·trenched, en·trench·ing, en·trench·es v.tr. 1. To provide with a trench, especially for the purpose of fortifying or defending. 2. in mainstream culture. The notion that without sexist discrimination, half of all chief executive officers, engineers, and firefighters would be female is, paradoxically, matched by the equally pervasive notion that women and men are worlds apart. A May 1994 Newsweek story on gender in cyberspace says that women want computers to "meet people's needs," while men want to explore and conquer. In April 1998, The New Yorker ran two articles about how women will remake government and business in a collaborative, nurturing, consensus-oriented mold. A U.S. News & World Report U.S. News & World Report Weekly newsmagazine published in Washington, D.C. U.S. News was founded in 1933 by David Lawrence (1888–1973) to cover important domestic events; he founded World Report in 1945 to treat world news. The two magazines were merged in 1948. story on women architects in October 1996 states that, unlike men, they place human needs above the ego and "collaboration" above "individual brilliance." The evidence for such claims is usually underwhelming un·der·whelm tr.v. un·der·whelmed, un·der·whelm·ing, un·der·whelms To fail to excite, stimulate, or impress: . If 58 percent of women and 46 percent of men tend to favor an activist government, that mutates Mutates Undergoes a spontaneous change in the make-up of genes or chromosomes. Mentioned in: Antiretroviral Drugs in the minds of analysts into "fundamental differences" on issues and values - even if, in the same poll, 44 percent of men and 49 percent of women agree that "government should do more to help needy Americans even if it means going deeper into debt." It is sometimes suggested that to deny differences between the sexes is a willful blindness Willful blindness is a term used in law to describe a situation in which an individual seeks to avoid civil or criminal liability for a wrongful act by intentionally putting himself in a position where he will be unaware of facts which would render him liable. to reality. But all those grandiose pronouncements about men and women often seem no less at odds with how actual human beings behave. When the women-only sailing crew of [America.sup.3] raced for the 1995 America's Cup America's Cup: see sailing. America's Cup Most prestigious trophy in international yachting competition. First offered under another name in Britain in 1851, the cup was won easily by the America from New York and subsequently became known as the , the media readily picked up team sponsor Bill Koch's favorite theme: Women (unlike men) don't have a problem subordinating their egos to the team. Yet an earlier all-female team, the U.S. Women's Challenge The Women's Challenge bicycle race was held annually in and around southern Idaho beginning in 1984 until its demise in 2002. During much of its 19 year history, it was the most prestigious women's cycle race in North America. in the 1993 Whitbread race, was plagued by rivalries that prompted ousted skipper Nance Frank to lament, "Basically, there's no difference between men and women." When John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, took his act to Broadway, a celebrity member of his on-stage panel, the supermodel Frederique, wouldn't play along, declaring, "I relate a lot more to the Martian side." Gray scrambled for a face-saving answer that stood his basic conceit on its head, saying that women are "both Martian and Venusian." Yes, and so are men. What's the Difference? In recent years, even feminism has embraced gender differences and "female values" such as cooperation, nurturance, and pacifism pacifism, advocacy of opposition to war through individual or collective action against militarism. Although complete, enduring peace is the goal of all pacifism, the methods of achieving it differ. . Although antipathy to "male" individualism and competition was part of the women's movement women's movement: see feminism; woman suffrage. women's movement Diverse social movement, largely based in the U.S., seeking equal rights and opportunities for women in their economic activities, personal lives, and politics. in the 1970s, "difference feminism Difference feminism is a philosophy that stresses that men and women are ontologically different versions of the human being. Many Catholics adhere to and have written on the philosophy, though the philosophy is not specifically Catholic. " became ascendant after the publication of the 1982 book, In a Different Voice, by Harvard psychologist Carol Gilligan Carol Gilligan (1936– ) is an American feminist, ethicist, and psychologist best known for her work with and against Lawrence Kohlberg on ethical community and ethical relationships, and certain subject-object problems in ethics. . Gilligan contrasted women's "ethic of care," based on human needs and relationships, with "male" moral reasoning Moral reasoning is a study in psychology that overlaps with moral philosophy. It is also called Moral development. Prominent contributors to theory include Lawrence Kohlberg and Elliot Turiel. based on rights, justice, and abstract principles. "Difference feminists" usually skirt the question of where the difference originates, though Gilligan dances on the edge of arguing that childbearing gives women "easier access...to the fact of human connection." This evasiveness has earned them some ridicule: Journalist Robert Wright Robert Wright is the name of:
Although she has lectured worldwide in her field, and written or edited numerous academic publications on linguistics and interpersonal , author of the 1990 best-seller You Just Don't Understand: Men and Women in Conversation, for arguing that boys "learn" to jockey for status in their more hierarchical networks, without explaining "why the boys' groups are always more hierarchical in the first place." (That always, as we shall see, is quite an overstatement o·ver·state tr.v. o·ver·stat·ed, o·ver·stat·ing, o·ver·states To state in exaggerated terms. See Synonyms at exaggerate. o .) Wright belongs to a school of thought known as evolutionary psychology evolutionary psychology n. The study of the psychological adaptations of humans to the changing physical and social environment, especially of changes in brain structure, cognitive mechanisms, and behavioral differences among individuals. (represented by his 1994 book The Moral Animal and by such recent works as Matt Ridley's The Red Queen and Steven Pinker's How the Mind Works). This school holds that la difference is a product of reproductive strategies that evolved to ensure genetic survival. The male, who can increase his progeny by having many mates, is "programmed" to wander and to seek dominance. The female, for whom parenthood is time-consuming, saves her favors for males who have good genes or who are willing and able to "invest" in her and her young. He looks for youth and attractiveness in a mate (signs of fertility); she looks for status and resources. Even if these patterns aren't relevant in an industrial society, they are "hard-wired" into our brains by millennia of evolution. The political implications of this theory can cut both ways. Wright and Ridley invoke it to support affirmative action affirmative action, in the United States, programs to overcome the effects of past societal discrimination by allocating jobs and resources to members of specific groups, such as minorities and women. : Since men's advancement is propelled by their greater lust for power, often unrelated to merit, women must be favored "not to redress prejudice but to redress human nature." Others, such as Wayne State University Wayne State University, at Detroit, Mich.; state supported; coeducational; established 1956 as a successor to Wayne Univ. (formed 1934 by a merger of five city colleges). law professor Kingsley Browne, argue that in the light of the new Darwinian science, male dominance Male dominance, or maledom, generally refers to heterosexual BDSM activities where the dominant partner is male, and the submissive partner is female. However, the term is sometimes used to refer to homosexual BDSM activities, where both partners are male and one is dominant. in the public sphere The public sphere is a concept in continental philosophy and critical theory that contrasts with the private sphere, and is the part of life in which one is interacting with others and with society at large. is natural. And some evolutionary psychologists The following is a list of evolutionary psychologists or prominent contributors to the field of evolutionary psychology. : Top - 0–9 A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z A
Our genetic heritage may shed light on many things about men and women. But we should heed philosopher Thomas Nagel's warning against "the ludicrous overuse overuse Health care The common use of a particular intervention even when the benefits of the intervention don't justify the potential harm or cost–eg, prescribing antibiotics for a probable viral URI. Cf Misuse, Underuse. of evolutionary biology Evolutionary biology is a sub-field of biology concerned with the origin and descent of species, as well as their change, multiplication, and diversity over time. to explain everything about life, including everything about the human mind," particularly since scientific knowledge of how evolution shapes the human mind is not just incomplete but highly speculative. There is also much that science has yet to learn about hormones and brain organization, two other hot areas of research on sex differences. For instance, findings of "masculinized" behavior such as increased play with "boyish" toys in girls exposed to high prenatal levels of male hormones (androgens Androgens Male sex hormones produced by the adrenal glands and testes, the male sex glands. Mentioned in: Acne, Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia, Finasteride, Homocysteine, Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, Salpingo-Oophorectomy ) are ambiguous: Androgenized girls don't show elevated levels of physical aggression or rough-and-tumble play. In one study, contrary to the researchers' expectations, girls with twin brothers, who have some exposure to androgens in the womb, exhibited no unusually tomboyish behavior, while girls with an older brother did. Nor does magnetic-imagery brain research lend itself to simple conclusions. In a much-publicized Yale study in which men and women used different parts of the brain when picking rhyming word pairs, more than 40 percent of the women - eight out of 19 - thought like a man, so to speak, but no men showed a female pattern. Could this mean that women are less rigidly sex-typed? Maybe. But while another brain scan brain scan n. A scintigram of the brain, used to identify cerebral blood flow and to detect intracranial masses, lesions, tumors, or infarcts. study from the University of Pennsylvania (body, education) University of Pennsylvania - The home of ENIAC and Machiavelli. http://upenn.edu/. Address: Philadelphia, PA, USA. found some differences in brain metabolism, a third of the males and only four of the 26 females had "cross-sex" brain patterns. Unisex feminism certainly has its inanities and its zealotry zeal·ot·ry n. Excessive zeal; fanaticism. zealotism, zealotry a tendency to undue or excessive zeal; fanaticism. See also: Behavior Noun 1. , aptly dubbed "biodenial" by Daphne Patai Daphne Patai (born 1943) is a feminist thinker who is currently a professor in the Department of Languages, Literatures, and Cultures at the University of Massachusetts Amherst. Her PhD is in Brazilian literature, but her early work also focused on utopian and dystopian fiction. and Noretta Koertge in their 1994 book Professing Feminism. Feminist biologist Anne Fausto-Sterling Anne Fausto-Sterling, Ph. D., (born 1944) is Professor of Biology and Gender Studies at Brown University. She participates actively in the field of sexology and has written extensively on the fields of biology of gender, sexual identity, gender identity, and gender roles. argues that the very idea of two sexes is a cultural construct, since babies with genital or chromosomal abnormalities are neither male nor female. Some scientists report pressure to stop or bowdlerize bowd·ler·ize tr.v. bowd·ler·ized, bowd·ler·iz·ing, bowd·ler·iz·es 1. To expurgate (a book, for example) prudishly. 2. To modify, as by shortening or simplifying or by skewing the content in a certain manner. sex difference research. In John Stossel's 1995 ABC ABC in full American Broadcasting Co. Major U.S. television network. It began when the expanding national radio network NBC split into the separate Red and Blue networks in 1928. special, Boys and Girls Are Different, Bella Abzug Bella Savitsky Abzug (July 24, 1920 – March 31, 1998) was a well-known American political figure and a leader of the women's movement. She famously said, "This woman's place is in the House — the House of Representatives," in her successful 1970 campaign to join that and Gloria Steinem Noun 1. Gloria Steinem - United States feminist (born in 1934) Steinem dismissed such research as "poppycock pop·py·cock n. Senseless talk; nonsense. [Dutch dialectal pappekak : pap, pap (from Middle Dutch pappe, perhaps from Latin pappa, food) + kak, " and "anti-American crazy thinking." Yet the fascination with la difference can make truth a casualty too. Take an oft-cited study in which 1-year-olds were separated from their mothers by a barrier. The results were summed up by Stossel as, "Most boys try to knock the barrier down; most girls just stand there and cry for help" - a depressing image of feminine passivity. Yet Stossel also acknowledged that when his crew tried to tape such an experiment they saw only the exceptions - boys crying, girls struggling to get out. In the original 1969 study, the girls cried almost twice as long as the boys, and boys were more likely to wander to the ends of the barrier (where it was latched). That was taken to mean that they were trying to solve their predicament. But in a more detailed analysis of these data published 10 years later, it turned out that the girls pushed at the barrier as much as the boys did and tried to open the latches more often; the boys who moved to the end of the barrier mostly just stood there. In a follow-up study of the children at 2, girls were no weepier than boys and were far more active problem solvers: More than 20 percent of them got out, compared with 7 percent of the boys. One would have to be very unobservant or very stubborn to deny that some traits are more common in one sex than the other. But, as Stossel noted, "individual differences are often much greater than the differences between the sexes." Still his own comments about how we are "biologically hard-wired to be different" seemed to leave little room for individual variety, as did all his footage of girls with tea sets and boys with swords. We shouldn't forget all the girls we now see playing basketball or soccer, and even taking part in soapbox derby races where they now make up a third of the contestants; or the boys who care tenderly for a puppy or kitten. The Evidence of Gender Much as they diverge ideologically, difference feminists and biological determinists share a propensity for sweeping statements based on modest evidence. In You Just Don't Understand, Deborah Tannen cites a finding by psychologist Campbell Leaper that 5-year-old girls interact in a "mutually positive" manner, while boys exhibit "negative reciprocity" by which one boy tries to control and the other withdraws. In fact, Leaper found virtually no sex differences among children 4 to 6. Between 6 and 9, the boys were a bit less cooperative and the girls noticeably more so: 42 percent of their exchanges were "mutually positive" compared with 21 percent of the boys' exchanges. But even older boys collaborated much more than they sought to dominate, and they exhibited very little "negative reciprocity." On the traditionalist side of the political spectrum, law professor Kingsley Browne speaks of "substantial evidence for sex difference in the spontaneous emergence of leaders." His source is a review of studies showing that overall, in small groups working on a task, men emerged as leaders 58 percent of the time. The difference was largest in laboratory studies and barely present in natural settings (mostly college students working on class projects). Male leadership was also most likely in groups that met once for fewer than 20 minutes; the division was close to 50-50 if there was more than one meeting. In other words, the more the conditions of the study resembled the real world, the smaller the difference. When within-sex variation is taken into account, most psychological sex differences are in the small-to-moderate range, meaning that the distribution of a trait or behavior between the sexes is somewhere between 52-48 and 66-34. Sometimes, the research at least partly corroborates the stereotypes; often, many pieces of the puzzle don't fit. Consider Tannen's basic claim: The social world of boys is hierarchical and concerned with power, while that of girls is egalitarian and concerned with intimacy. One observation of same-sex pairs of preschoolers in the playground seems at first to back Tannen: Boys used "heavy-handed persuasion" - physical force or threats - in 22 percent of their conflicts, compared with 9 percent for girls; the percentages were reversed for "conflict mitigation." Yet both sexes settled about two-thirds of their conflicts by "moderate persuasion" (which included giving orders). And "conflict mitigation" did not always denote concern with relationships: It included indirect displays of anger, such as staging a fight between disputed dolls, and walking out of a conflict situation. There is evidence that in dealing with conflict girls are somewhat more concerned with maintaining relationships and boys with asserting control. Yet plenty of research casts doubt on beatific visions of the warm, egalitarian girl "communities" - as does, of course, the personal experience of anyone who has been a girl. Boys' power contests are more often expressed in physical aggression. But according to according to prep. 1. As stated or indicated by; on the authority of: according to historians. 2. In keeping with: according to instructions. 3. behavioral scientist Diane Jones, "competition and asymmetric relationships are as much a part of female groups as male ones." In an especially intriguing experiment, preschoolers in single-sex groups of four were given a film viewer designed so that a child could watch a cartoon through an eyepiece Eyepiece A lens or optical system which offers to the eye the image originating from another system (the objective), at a suitable viewing distance. The image can be virtual. only if two others cooperated by turning a crank and pressing a switch. There was much more playful pushing and hitting among boys. But the girls weren't shy about giving orders, using putdowns, or even blocking the viewer so that another child couldn't watch. Moreover, girl groups tended to have "a single dominant individual," while boys showed "more equal participation" in viewing. Nor did the alpha females get to the top by being nurturing: They gave commands, hit, and disrupted others' viewing much more often than other girls. The picture is equally complex when it comes to other truisms: * Men are competitive, women cooperative. In a survey in Minnesota schools in the early 1980s, 45 percent of students who scored above average on competitiveness were female. Kingsley Browne cites this study as proof that "competition...is a more unalloyed un·al·loyed adj. 1. Not in mixture with other metals; pure. 2. Complete; unqualified: unalloyed blessings; unalloyed relief. positive experience for boys." But being highly competitive had drawbacks - such as feeling too pressured - for young children of both sexes. By high school, this pattern disappeared for boys and almost disappeared for girls, and more competitive girls had a stronger sense of self-worth. A few years later, another study found that when high school athletes rated the relative importance of various goals in sports, girls emphasized teamwork somewhat more than boys did, while the reverse was true for winning and learning to be tough. Yet the similarities were far greater: Both sexes ranked cooperation first, followed by fitness, self-esteem, character building, and finally competition. * Men are autonomous, women "relational." A 1971 study did find a dramatic gap: 80 percent of the women, but only half of the men, defined their identity in terms of interpersonal connections. By the 1980s, this difference had all but vanished. When San Francisco State University • • [ English professor Jo Keroes analyzed student essays on personal dilemmas they had faced, she expected men to focus on self-determination and women on relationships. To her surprise, "autonomous" themes prevailed for both sexes. Another study was construed by its authors as supporting Gilligan's thesis since college women scored higher on "intimacy" than on "autonomy" - but so did the men. * Men don't share their feelings (especially not with other men). When scholars Kathryn Dindia and Mike Allen analyzed more than 200 studies on self-disclosure, they found surprisingly minor differences: "If approximately 45 percent of men would disclose a particular item, approximately 55 percent of women would disclose the same information." Subsequent research supports this conclusion. Researchers Steven Duck and Paul Wright Paul Wright may refer to:
tr.v. at·tuned, at·tun·ing, at·tunes 1. To bring into a harmonious or responsive relationship: an industry that is not attuned to market demands. 2. to caring, supportiveness," and other emotional aspects of friendship. Ironically, Duck and Wright admit to helping perpetuate "the fashionable dichotomy" in their earlier work: for instance, reading much into the finding that women's meetings with friends were usually spontaneous and men's were more often planned - on the basis of a 10-percentage - point gap. * Men deal with stress by trying to solve the problem, women by brooding or seeking emotional support. Actually, both women and men take the problem-solving approach most often, followed by support seeking and then by emotional responses such as self-blame and distraction. Are there differences? Some. In one study, men reported using problem solving problem solving Process involved in finding a solution to a problem. Many animals routinely solve problems of locomotion, food finding, and shelter through trial and error. as the coping technique of first resort 56 percent of the time in recent stressful situations, compared with 44 percent for women. But other methods lagged far behind for both women and men. And what about Tannen's classic you-just-don't-understand scenario, where the woman complains about a problem to get sympathy, the man offers a solution, and she gets upset? Her evidence for this archetypal ar·che·type n. 1. An original model or type after which other similar things are patterned; a prototype: "'Frankenstein' . . . 'Dracula' . . . 'Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde' . . . misunderstanding consists of anecdotes, obviously meant to illuminate us with a flash of recognition. But while it did just that for one of my male friends, another recalled Tannen vignettes in reverse when he sought sympathy from women who "snapped into an I-have-to-give-advice-right-now mode." And for one woman, the recognition involved herself in the "male" role of would-be problem fixer fixer, n the chemicals used in the final step of film processing that remove the unaffected silver halide particles from the developed film. fixer when talking to Noun 1. talking to - a lengthy rebuke; "a good lecture was my father's idea of discipline"; "the teacher gave him a talking to" lecture, speech rebuke, reprehension, reprimand, reproof, reproval - an act or expression of criticism and censure; "he had to her mother. Had Tannen wanted to cite research, it might have been difficult: Several studies that look at "nurturant nur·tur·ance n. The providing of loving care and attention. nur tur·ant adj.Adj. 1. " and "problem-solving" responses to another's distress have found slight differences - but no evidence of a gender gap that requires self-help books to bridge. * Women want love, men want sex. Gender differences in sexual attitudes and behavior are much more dramatic than in virtually any other area. It is surely overconfident o·ver·con·fi·dent adj. Excessively confident; presumptuous. o ver·con to discount biology, as do the authors of the 1994 report Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, who flatly state that there is "no reason to believe these differences...reflect some sort of genetic imperative." Indeed, it would be strange if reproductive roles had no effect on men's and women's attitudes toward sex. In this sphere of life, evolutionary logic makes the most sense. But any theory which reduces human motivation to a mechanism that works independently of conscious intent can lose touch with reality. Robert Wright asserts that in casual sex, "the worst likely outcome for the man (in genetic terms) is that pregnancy would not ensue." Never mind that in real-life terms, the worst likely outcome is that it would. Several studies confirm that, as evolutionary theory
Other studies point both to undeniable gender gaps and to much common ground. In the National Health and Social Life Survey (on which Sex in America was based), one in four women under 25, one in five women in their 30s, and about one in three men held a "recreational" view of sex. The most common outlook for both sexes was "relational," linking sex to emotional intimacy but not necessarily marriage. When respondents in another survey were asked to pick 10 out of 48 wishes that they would most want fulfilled, sex "with anyone I choose" was selected by one in 17 women and one in four men. Yet the wish that got the most votes from both sexes, 73 percent of the women and 58 percent of the men, was "to deeply love a person who deeply loves me." Equity vs. Equality Clearly, the way we think about differences and similarities between the sexes has major consequences. If there is no innate sex difference in ability or inclination to be a physicist or engineer, women's underrepresentation proves that they are held back by discrimination or social pressure. If there is a difference, one could still call for special programs for girls, perhaps at the cost of steering some away from fields that suit them better. Or one could just focus on equal opportunity - even if, when the dust settles, women would make up 30 percent of engineers (as psychologist Janet Hyde estimates from spatial ability tests) or fewer. But that wouldn't do for the equality-uber-alles school. When, on his Boys and Girls special, John Stossel asked Bella Abzug if equality meant equal numbers in every field, she fired back, "Fifty-fifty - absolutely." If this notion of equality is misguided, clinging to it can lead us to see sexism where there is none and pursue coercive social engineering - or even imperil im·per·il tr.v. im·per·iled or im·per·illed, im·per·il·ing or im·per·il·ling, im·per·ils To put into peril. See Synonyms at endanger. lives, as when fire departments' fitness standards are weakened to accommodate women. Yet assumptions based on seemingly solid data about sex differences can miss the mark. In her 1973 antifeminist an·ti·fem·i·nist adj. Characterized by ideas or behavior reflecting a disbelief in the economic, political, and social equality of the sexes. an polemic, The Female Woman, Arianna Stassinopoulos (now Huffington) predicted that equal opportunity without artificial parity would lead to "a small rise in the numbers of women accountants, engineers or geologists but a big rise in the numbers of female physicians, psychiatrists, lawyers, clergymen." So far, she has been correct about engineers and geologists. But in 1993, about half of accountants in the United States were female. The history of Title IX of the 1972 Education Amendments, which bans sex discrimination in school athletics, illustrates the difference between equity and numerical equality. The law is almost universally applauded for opening up unprecedented opportunities for girls and young women to compete in sports. But recently, Title IX has also been interpreted as requiring that similar proportions of male and female college students be involved in sports - even if fewer women are interested. To comply, excellent men's sports programs are being killed, so that a male student who wants to participate in sports has less opportunity to do so than his female counterpart. But conservatives who criticize this trend sometimes seem to assume a static gender gap in levels of interest in athletics. Actually, girls' enthusiasm for sports has skyrocketed. So say not just statistics (girls now make up about 40 percent of high school athletes, up from 5 percent in 1971) but middle-aged men who coach children's teams. Today, we are learning more about the biological roots of sexual identity. Yet at the same time, we are seeing fewer sexual divisions. In England, psychological tests Psychological Tests Definition Psychological tests are written, visual, or verbal evaluations administered to assess the cognitive and emotional functioning of children and adults. show that sex differences found among older people on such items as "I often try to get my own way regardless of others" do not hold for those under 30 - perhaps due less to changes in personality than to younger women's greater candor about such traits. American women have become less risk-averse players in financial markets; on the darker side of risk taking, they are catching up with men in problem gambling and in drug and alcohol abuse. Indeed, most scientists who study the biology of sex differences agree that nature and nurture interact in complex ways: Our activities and environment can alter brain organization and hormonal makeup. If, as Kingsley Browne suggests, it's "adaptive" for a child to imitate same-sex models, girls surrounded by images of strong women, from athletes and political leaders to television and film characters, will probably grow up different from earlier generations. Pink, Blue, or Khaki? One way to inject common sense into this debate is to shift the focus from groups to individuals. Otherwise, "difference talk" has its dangers. A boy will do better on a math test than a girl 63 percent of the time - whatever the reason. But if you automatically assume that a male is better at math than a female, whether in hiring someone or in helping a student make a career decision, you'll be wrong nearly four out of 10 times. Browne wonders why "a tendency for men to exhibit male traits and for women to exhibit female traits is inferior to a situation in which the traits are distributed at random." In a sense, he is right: If women make up 63 percent of people with one trait and 33 percent of those with another, that shouldn't be a problem. But if these unevenly distributed qualities are designated as male and female with no quotation marks, people may be hindered from developing or acting on "cross-sex" traits. Such assumptions may also cause people to be judged, perhaps unconsciously, by sex-based generalizations. Men get 40 percent more speeding tickets when speed is measured by radar but 250 percent more when the judgment is made by an officer's naked eye - partly, perhaps, because of chivalry chivalry (shĭv`əlrē), system of ethical ideals that arose from feudalism and had its highest development in the 12th and 13th cent. , but also because the real gender gap in speeding is reinforced by stereotypical expectations. That men are more likely to think and act in some ways and women in others, and that every man or woman should be treated as an individual, are two ideas we ought to be able to hold at the same time. This means avoiding comments like, "Each sex seems to have a different definition of what constitutes success in life" (as Browne writes, quoting from a 1968 monograph by psychologists Joseph E. Garai and Amram Scheinfeld). Sexes don't have definitions of success; people do. But it also means accepting that in a nonsexist non·sex·ist adj. 1. Not discriminating on the basis of gender: nonsexist hiring policies. 2. society, most corporate executives may be men and most "primary caregiver" parents may be women. Such an approach also negates arguments for including women in various fields on the basis of their special strengths, given how unpredictably these strengths are distributed. Robert Wright suggests that affirmative action should be based on the premise that women are less prone "to sacrifice the organization's welfare to personal advancement," and hence good for business. But the world is full of women looking out for No. 1, and they would be far quicker than their meeker sisters to reap the benefits of quotas. Women managers, some studies show, may not even be more sympathetic toward employees' family problems. Just as specious spe·cious adj. 1. Having the ring of truth or plausibility but actually fallacious: a specious argument. 2. Deceptively attractive. is the notion that women as women have something unique to contribute to human understanding. A woman who criticizes individualism, competition, or the elevation of reason over feeling will be in agreement with plenty of men, from Rousseau to Tolstoy to Marcuse. (Rachel Carson, sometimes cited as a female voice affirming an organic vision of the sanctity of life, drew her inspiration from Albert Schweitzer.) Given the range of "male" and even "white male" thought, it's unlikely than women can produce ideas entirely free of its influence; indeed, it would be ludicrous to try. Worse, "difference feminism" can become a new straitjacket straitjacket /strait·jack·et/ (strat´jak?et) informal name for camisole. strait·jack·et or straight·jack·et n. for women: Gilligan and the authors of the 1986 women's studies bible, Women's Ways of Knowing, disparage dis·par·age tr.v. dis·par·aged, dis·par·ag·ing, dis·par·ag·es 1. To speak of in a slighting or disrespectful way; belittle. See Synonyms at decry. 2. To reduce in esteem or rank. women who see "male" individualism or rationality as liberating. The trickiest part, perhaps, is applying an appreciation of sex difference and individual difference to personal life. If one in three young men and one in five young women think sex just for fun is great, that's enough of a gap for many girls who want romance to run into boys who want a romp - one reason generalizations strike a chord. But life confounds all dogmas, whether of sameness or of difference, so that men who value marriage and relational sex - and women who don't - are not uncommon. Indeed, a 1983 critique of the sexual revolution by writer and psychotherapist psy·cho·ther·a·pist n. An individual, such as a psychiatrist, psychologist, psychiatric nurse, or psychiatric social worker, who practices psychotherapy. Peter Marin argued that liberation had turned into disillusionment Disillusionment Adams, Nick loses innocence through WWI experience. [Am. Lit.: “The Killers”] Angry Young Men disillusioned postwar writers of Britain, such as Osborne and Amis. [Br. Lit. for many women and men alike, except that "men are less articulate, feel less justified than women in their public complaints." Likewise, the male-fear-of-commitment cliche may have been an excuse for many women to avoid confronting their commitment anxiety. So concluded two people who helped propagate the cliche - Steven Carter and Julia Sokol, authors of the 1984 best-seller Men Who Can't Love, whose 1993 follow-up was titled He's Scared, She's Scared. One could point to the popularity of You Just Don't Understand or Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus as proof that relationship problems stem from living with a member of a different species whom we mistakenly treat as one of our own. But does it prove much beyond the fact that intimacy is messy and complicated? Don't mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, siblings, same-sex lovers feel at times that they must cross a labyrinth to reach one another? Mars-Venus advice promises a quick fix: You just pull out the blue file marked "men" or the pink one marked "women" instead of trying to deal with the other person's unique qualities, or with your own inadequacies. In part, the fascination with difference is a justified response to the excesses of unisex feminism. Only in women's studies can a utopia where gender matters no more than eye color hold any appeal. Sexual differentiation sexual differentiation See Hermaphroditism, hirsutism, Müllerian ducts, Precocious puberty, Pseudoprecocious puberty, Tanner staging, Testis-determining factor, Virilization, Wolffian ducts, XXX, XXY, XXXY, XYY syndromes, Y Chromosome. in some sense is a profound human need. The idea of a child being raised as an "X," its sex known only to the parents - the premise of a story by Lois Gould published in an early issue of Ms. as a rousing statement of liberation - is likely to strike most people as deranged de·range tr.v. de·ranged, de·rang·ing, de·rang·es 1. To disturb the order or arrangement of. 2. To upset the normal condition or functioning of. 3. To disturb mentally; make insane. . Some people, fed up with a feminist creed that simultaneously holds that women and men are the same and that women are innocents and men are beasts, welcome the message that we should accept our differences. But an armistice Armistice (Nov. 11, 1918) Agreement between Germany and the Allies ending World War I. Allied representatives met with a German delegation in a railway carriage at Rethondes, France, to discuss terms. The agreement was signed on Nov. in the gender wars is unlikely to work if it focuses on acceptance of collective but not individual difference. A world divided into updated versions of pink and blue would be only marginally less progressive than a world of khaki uniforms. Cathy Young (cathyyoung1@compuserve.com) is a REASON contributing editor. This article is adapted from her new book, Ceasefire: Why Women and Men Must Join Forces to Achieve True Equality, published by The Free Press. |
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