Rebels with a cause.Dear Bob, What about those staff members who are either former campers or who have worked at our camp before? They are sometimes headstrong head·strong adj. 1. Determined to have one's own way; stubbornly and often recklessly willful. See Synonyms at obstinate, unruly. 2. Resulting from willfulness and obstinacy. , cocky cock·y adj. cock·i·er, cock·i·est Overly self-assertive or self-confident. cock i·ly adv. ,
and adversarial with administration. They cruise through staff week
infecting other staff with the notion, "What the administration is
saying is okay, but here's how things really work!" How can
they be brought back to our side?
Distressed in Durango Dear Distressed, Either the same band of young staff is travelling to most of the camps in the United States United States, officially United States of America, republic (2005 est. pop. 295,734,000), 3,539,227 sq mi (9,166,598 sq km), North America. The United States is the world's third largest country in population and the fourth largest country in area. , or you have had the kind of experience most directors have from time to time. Experience tells us that staff members with the greatest sense of ownership of camp are usually those who are former campers. Unfortunately, they can also be the most resistant to change and the most tenacious te·na·cious adj. 1. Clinging to another object or surface; adhesive. 2. Holding together firmly; cohesive. tenacious viscid; adhesive. about holding on to any underground culture that might exist at camp. An underground culture condones or advocates sneaking away, cutting corners, drinking or other high-risk behavior high-risk behavior Public health A lifestyle activity that places a person at ↑ risk of suffering a particular condition. See Safe sex practices. , and bending camp rules and guidelines. Draw in underground rebels Since this behavior is highly predictable, plan ahead. Get rebels to join in. Have your leadership team help identify them early in the preseason, then brainstorm ways to involve these often charismatic people in orientation events. Have them perform small skits on activity areas, life in the bunk, and the history of camp. They can organize a special sports tournament for staff, a mini color war, or other event. Pull them into the program with specific responsibilities that challenge them to rise to their best while giving you an easy and legitimate way to supervise them. Involving potential renegades in this way will create the opportunity for you to meet with them as a separate group to discuss important topics, such being a part of the camp community, the camp's values, and the challenges of working with campers. In this way, you harness the spirit and enthusiasm these people bring to camp while beginning to discuss risk-taking behavior among campers and counselors. Keep staff from going underground Proactively including young rebel staff in your program invites them to bring their challenges and resistance out in the open, to make it public, where it can be seen, responded to, and contained. All too often, directors respond to young, challenging, and perhaps seditious se·di·tious adj. 1. Of, relating to, or having the nature of sedition. 2. Given to or guilty of engaging in or promoting sedition. See Synonyms at insubordinate. staff with a combination of ignoring them and struggling with them. When this happens, the group becomes further disenfranchised, setting up a we/they feeling that the administration mirrors. A group that feels disavowed Disavowed is a brutal death metal band from Amsterdam/Rotterdam/Den Helder,The Netherlands and Cannes South of France. They have released two albums, one in 2002, on the American label Unique Leader called 'Perceptive Deception' and one in 2007 on Neurotic Records called will only become more and more secretive and further undermine the administration. I see such a group as a challenge, sometimes serious, sometimes more benign, for administrators to articulate their values and practice constructive confrontation. In other words Adv. 1. in other words - otherwise stated; "in other words, we are broke" put differently , getting people to buy in requires including them in the process. It means giving them genuine responsibility accompanied by the tools and support to be successful. It also means having a core group of staff who are on board with your values and can articulate and model them. Modeling might include admitting mistakes publicly when appropriate, respecting curfews and rules about drinking and smoking, and speaking up when other staff break such rules. Understand risk-taking Any discussion of staff is not complete without some mention of risk-taking behavior. Risk-taking behavior is one of the least understood aspects of working at camp, yet it has profound implications about what happens there. Risk taking is a normal part of growing, for children and adults. Whether it is trying a new skill or activity, such as archery archery, sport of shooting with bow and arrow, an important military and hunting skill before the introduction of gunpowder. England's Charles II fostered archery as sport, establishing in 1673 the world's oldest continuous archery tournament, the Ancient Scorton or climbing, or more social behavior In biology, psychology and sociology social behavior is behavior directed towards, or taking place between, members of the same species. Behavior such as predation which involves members of different species is not social. , such as making a new friend or admitting a mistake to a group of peers, risk taking is an essential part of camp life. In fact, one of the strengths of a good camp program is that it provides many varied opportunities for campers and staff to expand their horizons by participating in healthy, well-supervised healthy risk-taking activities, both social and physical. We need to teach staff, especially the young and restless Young and Restless can refer to:
Verb to persuade to take part in some activity Verb 1. rope in - divide by means of a rope; "The police roped off the area where the crime occurred" cordon off, rope off the woods without checking the situation for safety is an example of a medium-to-high risk behavior that is needlessly reckless. State expectations When you encounter a staff member who, for whatever reason, cannot abide by the rules, guidelines, or values at camp, you need to switch into your businesslike busi·ness·like adj. 1. Showing or having characteristics advantageous to or of use in business; methodical and systematic. 2. Purposeful; earnest. 3. mode of administration. State, one-on-one with the staff member, your expectations and the consequences of noncompliance noncompliance failure of the owner to follow instructions, particularly in administering medication as prescribed; a cause of a less than expected response to treatment. noncompliance . Once these issues are understood, further episodes of undermining the program or breaking the rules need to be dealt with fairly and predictably, even if it means letting a staff member go. I have spoken to many directors who regret holding on to staff for too long, either because they hoped that it would all work out, or they feared being short-handed or inflaming in·flame v. in·flamed, in·flam·ing, in·flames v.tr. 1. To arouse to passionate feeling or action: crimes that inflamed the entire community. 2. relations with the rest of the staff. Often, the staff is relieved when directors have the courage to stand up and confront those staff who fail to uphold the rules or maintain safety at camp. As long as there has been a genuine attempt to bring people into the process, have open discussions, give clear expectations, and provide adequate feedback about performance, staff who are reasonable will accept house cleaning as a way of honoring their efforts and values. Bob Ditter is a licensed clinical social worker specializing in child and adolescent treatment. Camp directors are invited to write to Bob at: Bob Ditter, "In the Trenches," 93 Union St., Ste. 307, Newton, MA 02159 or e-mail: bobditter@aol.com, or fax 617-964-2219. Letters should be signed, although requests for confidentiality will be honored. "In the Trenches" is sponsored by American Income Life Insurance. |
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