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Overnight my wife turned into an orgy-loving swinger desperate to have seedy sex with strangers.. but I still love her; EXCLUSIVE HEARTBROKEN HUSBAND WARNS HOW AN INTERNET OBSESSION DESTROYED HIS MARRIAGE.

Byline: By HENRY AUSTIN and EMILY JANUSZEWSKI

AS heartbroken Allan Shepherd stares sadly at a picture of himself with once-loyal wife Lynette, he can only guess whose bed she will be spending the night in.

It could be Superdave from Hampshire, Billy from Oxford, or any one of a score of strange men or even couples.

For after 27 happy years Allan's marriage has been torn to shreds by Lynette's obsession with SWINGING.

In a stark warning to all couples who think their marriage will survive while a partner explores fantasies on the internet, Allan revealed how his size 18 wife...

GOT HOOKEDon kinky websites as she trawled the net to keep herself occupied during an illness:

SHOCKEDher husband by posing virtually naked for strangers in chatrooms.

LIED to him that she was visiting a pal when she was really going to her first no-holds-barred orgy.

CHANGEDfrom cuddly mum and gran to sex-crazed swinger who lists her interests as "dogging", group sex and threesomes.

CHOSE SWINGING over her marriage when she was given an ultimatum.

Incredibly, 57-year-old Allan is still prepared to forgive Lynette, 49, and says: "I still love her. I thought we'd grow old together, and I can't bear to share her with anyone else.

"Swinging has cost Lynette her family, but all would be forgiven if she stopped now. I just don't want to see her come to any harm."

Allan's nightmare began a year ago when Royal Mail worker Lynette was signed off on long-term sick leave with kidney problems.

Bored at home, the mum of three and grandmother of two turned to the internet for company.

Allan said: "It began innocently with us buying and selling on eBay. Lynette hadn't used the web much before and as she grew more confident she started using chatrooms.

"Then she bought a webcam. I was pleased at first that she'd found something to occupy herself with. It gave her a new lease of life."

But Lynette's hobby soon became an obsession. Allan, of Monmouth, South Wales, would often wake in the middle of the night to find an empty space in bed beside him.

Downstairs he would find Lynette hunched over the keyboard, tapping messages to strangers as far afield as Morocco and Hawaii.

Bizarrely, Lynnette then began dressing up for the camera, donning a series of wigs for her web chats.

Allan said: "One night I came home from work and Lynette was sat at the computer wearing a long, blonde wig.

"I asked her what she was doing and she said she was just having a laugh. Then I caught her wearing a brown curly wig. She gave the same excuse. I didn't like it, and I told her so." Allan begged her to limit the amount of time she spent glued to the computer but his wife refused.

He said: "One night during a blazing row I chucked the computer out of the window. But she went straight out and bought a new laptop."

The situation came to a head in July when Lynette said she was visiting a pal in Oxford for a girlie weekend.

When she returned, Allan watched gobsmacked as his wife unpacked her collection of wigs from her suitcase.

He said: "It was obvious she hadn't been on a cosy weekend with the girls. She told me straight. She'd been at a sex party. She was very graphic about what she'd done there.

"She'd had sex with other men, two women, and a couple. There were threesomes, foursomes. It had gone on all weekend.

"The words were like a dagger to my heart. I reeled in hor ror, absolutely devastated. I'd never been hurt so much before." Humiliated, Allan gave his wife an ultimatum - if she didn't stop her sordid behaviour he would leave.

He said: "I didn't really want to go because despite everything I still loved her.

But she called my bluff. To my horror she told me that I could do what I wanted, but there was no way she was going to give up swinging."

Lynette also revealed that she had been a member of a sex website for three months, using the false name Natasha69.

The mum had posted photos on the site posing as a Bunny Girl in woodlands and boasting that she was "very outgoing" and "not shy at all".

Under an advert headed "Sex -love it", Lynette said she would love to meet couples and bisexual females and that she "loves sex, especially oral".

Son Adam, 26, who has left home and moved in with his father, said: "I can't bring myself to talk to her. She has ripped our family apart."

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WILD: Lynette (left) in a bunny pose, the couple (right) in happier times and the internet ad (above); APPALLED: Son Adam and hubby Allan; LUSTING: Lynette in one of the poses that shocked her husband
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Date:Feb 18, 2007
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