My parents are getting a divorce.

Dear Kids,

I have a problem. My parents are getting a divorce, and I am really sad. Can you help me?

Spencer

Sage

My parents are divorced, too. I know that you are sad, and I can't change that, but I may be able to help. Start by telling your parents that you are sad and ask how often you will visit both parents. Then every night write down all the things that you are grateful for and see how lucky you are, regardless of the divorce.

Chelsy

Talk to your parents about how you feel. If that doesn't help, try talking to a friend who has gone through it before. And whatever you do, don't think that it is your fault. Good luck!

Ryan

One way to help you through a divorce is to talk with your friends, parents, teachers, or any other people that are close to you. Another way is to look on the bright side--your parents won't fight as much and you can still visit both of them. I hope this helps. I will be thinking of you.

Georgia

My parents are divorced, too. I was also very sad. What helped me was talking to someone. Try talking to someone--your parents, your friends, a counselor, or even your stuffed animals. Remember, it's OK to cry.

Tyler

Just because your mom and divorced doesn't mean that they don't love you anymore. You will still love them, and they will still love you, but you will not see them at the same time. Just because they are not married doesn't mean they tare not still friends. Sometimes they just get along better when they are apart.

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