My BFF never has any money, so I always wind up paying her way for things. I love her, but I get really sick of it.

How can I tell my best friend that I'm not her personal bank machine without hurting her feelings? She's sucking up all my allowance!

Tell your BFF she hurts your feelings by assuming you'll always pay. Next time you two go somewhere, be sure she knows how much it will cost. If she doesn't have the money, suggest you both do something that doesn't cost anything.

--Elizabeth B., 14

Say something like this: "[BFF's name], lately I've had to spend a lot of my money on you ... I worked hard to earn that money, and I think you should earn your own money too. Maybe you could try babysitting?"

--Rebecca H., 12

Find a job to do with your friend, like a lemonade stand. If you're older, you could work at a restaurant or store. If that doesn't work, tell her the truth. If she's a true friend, she'll understand. It might hurt, but it's worth it.

--Samantha W., 13

Explain to your BFF that it's important to pay for yourself because it gives you a sense of independence. She's getting older and needs to be responsible. Also, do things that aren't expensive, like riding bikes.

--Kristin D., 14

Just tell your friend she needs to save her own money because you can't keep paying her way. it shouldn't hurt her feelings. If anything, it might give her motivation to start saving.

--Taylor S., 12