Money Isn't Only Thing of Value Lost in Volatile Times.It can be a wild, rough ride to the top - and to the bottom. And plenty of Angelenos are finding that out first-hand, as their paper wealth gets jerked up and down to the tune of multiple millions on a daily basis. It's enough to make one's head spin, psychologically speaking. "When you lose your wealth, for some, it becomes the loss of one's self-esteem," said Dr. Gerald Rozansky, a psychiatrist. "When you suddenly have all this money, there is also a loss of who you are and how you fit in, and how life will go on." Counseling wealthy people who have lost it all, or at least a lot of it, has become something of a growth industry as high-flying chief executives get ousted after failing to meet market demands, and instant stock market millionaires learn the hard way that markets go down as well as up. The key issue facing these people, according to according to prep. 1. As stated or indicated by; on the authority of: according to historians. 2. In keeping with: according to instructions. 3. Kevin Hand, a psychiatrist who specializes in helping executives cope with fluctuations in their careers, is the blow to the ego rather than the loss of income. After all, few of them are in jeopardy of starving starve v. starved, starv·ing, starves v.intr. 1. To suffer or die from extreme or prolonged lack of food. 2. Informal To be hungry. 3. To suffer from deprivation. ; most top executives have been well paid for years and have golden parachutes golden parachute, a contract given to top executives of a corporation to provide benefits in case of job loss due to a takeover by another firm or a merger. The unusually generous benefits may include substantial severance pay, a one-time bonus payment when upon their departure, like former Mattel Inc. chief Jill Barad, who got more than $50 million upon leaving the toy company. "It's the loss of position that hurts the most," Hand said. "If you don't have position in a town like Los Angeles Los Angeles (lôs ăn`jələs, lŏs, ăn`jəlēz'), city (1990 pop. 3,485,398), seat of Los Angeles co., S Calif.; inc. 1850. , you are nobody. It's a nasty town when you don't have power. You have to crawl back to get it." Richard Rogg, who inns Promises Malibu, a high-priced drag and alcohol rehab center, said the first step in recovering from adversity is to identify the emotional stages involved in a fall from power. "First there is depression, then comes denial and anger," he said. "It's a grieving grieving Mourning, see there process. If you have a healthy ego structure, you will be able to make the shift. Some people kill themselves; others reinvent re·in·vent tr.v. re·in·vent·ed, re·in·vent·ing, re·in·vents 1. To make over completely: "She reinvented Indian cooking to fit a Western kitchen and a Western larder" themselves." Losing huge sums isn't the only phenomenon that can have a bruising bruising discoloration and actual hemorrhage at the site of injury, and a serious disadvantage in the meat trade. In the first 12 hours after injury the bruise is bright red, at 24 hours it is dark red, at 24 to 36 hours it loses its firm consistency and becomes watery and at 3 or effect on the psyche. Sudden success, while exhilarating, can also cause trouble. Dr. Andrew Leuchter, head of adult psychiatry at UCLA's Neuropsychiatric neu·ro·psy·chi·a·try n. The medical study of disorders with both neurological and psychiatric features. neu Institute, said such sudden changes - either making or losing large sums in a short span - spin many people out of control. "Sudden, unpredictable change creates anxiety," he said. "When something negative happens, it's a tremendous blow to self-esteem. Sudden wealth or sudden success means change, too, and that means stress. You can suddenly think, 'If I can do this, I can do anything.' People can horribly extend themselves and begin discarding their way of life - divorce, treating friends badly - and then suddenly there is a loss of support that leaves them high and dry." The dramatic changes, plus or minus, have a ripple effect ripple effect Epidemiology See Signal event. on families. "Marriages break up," Hand said. "The family is in a crisis, and it comes to the forefront. You are also looking at drinking and drugs and extramarital ex·tra·mar·i·tal adj. Being in violation of marriage vows; adulterous: an extramarital affair. extramarital Adjective affairs. You see it all." For those who suddenly come into dramatic wealth, there are other issues to face. "If your self-worth matches your achievements that's fine," said Barbara Bienstock, a psychotherapist psy·cho·ther·a·pist n. An individual, such as a psychiatrist, psychologist, psychiatric nurse, or psychiatric social worker, who practices psychotherapy. with a West Los Angeles
To cope with dramatic shifts, up or down, mental health specialists say that talking with friends and family helps. So does counseling. Depression can be treated with medication. And for those who find themselves on a dramatic financial upturn, sound financial advisors become extremely important. So can finding a new purpose in life. Most people spend their careers chasing after success, always seeking to reach a certain goal. People who have already made it, particularly those who become highly wealthy at a young age, suddenly find themselves without any real purpose in life. It is not uncommon today to find young millionaires quitting at the age of 35. While many people would see that as a wonderful thing, successful entrepreneurs tend to be highly energetic, driven people. Filling all that time can become a challenge, and ennui often sets in. "They are retired, but they still want to feel productive," Bienstock said. "It's an issue. How much golf can they play?" |
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