Mass disorder.If a priest delivers a truly outstanding sermon, he can expect that the Media will have no interest in it. On the other hand, if he says something from the altar that is scandalous and outrageous, the Media will leap to be his megaphone to the world. Last September Father Rick Danyluk, pastor of St. Joseph's Basilica in Alameda, California, announced to his parishioners during Mass that he is homosexual. He is one of a number of priests who have done so. The Tri-Valley newspaper interviewed the pastor and recorded his conviction that on the issue of homosexuality, the Church is in conflict with the Gospel. The newspaper quoted the priest as saying, "One can only take so much of hearing how disordered you are. I wasn't baptized bap·tize v. bap·tized, bap·tiz·ing, bap·tiz·es v.tr. 1. To admit into Christianity by means of baptism. 2. a. To cleanse or purify. b. To initiate. 3. a disordered child of God. I was baptized like everyone else." The newspaper article goes on to state that the priest, upon making his announcement, received a standing ovation from his parishioners. A priest who stands alone before his congregation and declares that he is not disordered, and therefore should not be stigmatized with that damaging appellation ap·pel·la·tion n. 1. A name, title, or designation. 2. A protected name under which a wine may be sold, indicating that the grapes used are of a specific kind from a specific district. 3. The act of naming. , can seem to be most courageous. And such a display of apparent courage can easily win over sympathetic support from people who have been systematically taught to be sympathetic and supportive to those who are in need. Yet there is something seriously wrong with this picture. The line that separates love from sentimentality is easily blurred. "The greatest kindness one can render to any man," wrote St. Thomas Aquinas, "consists in leading him to truth." Love leads people to truth. Sentimentality is content to make people feel good. Love cannot operate without truth. The crucial question is whether the homosexual inclination is truly a disorder, not whether the notion of disorder makes homosexual people feel uncomfortable. It should be reiterated that we are all disordered because, owing to Original Sin, we all come into the world with a proclivity pro·cliv·i·ty n. pl. pro·cliv·i·ties A natural propensity or inclination; predisposition. See Synonyms at predilection. [Latin pr to sin. To know that we are all capable of living disordered lives is not to bear a stigma, but to recognize a truth that we should take seriously. A stigma, according to poplar parlance, is an unjust and hurtful label. Ironically, the Alameda priest had no qualms, when he made his startling star·tle v. star·tled, star·tling, star·tles v.tr. 1. To cause to make a quick involuntary movement or start. 2. To alarm, frighten, or surprise suddenly. See Synonyms at frighten. announcement, about referring to a "dysfunctional grandfather" and "a crazy uncle or two," despite the fact that being "dysfunctional" or "crazy" represents specific examples of being disordered. An excellent example of a stigma is the term "homophobia." People use it recklessly to characterize anyone who believes that homosexual encounters represent a disorder. Yet the term "homophobia," itself, is intended to denote a disorder, and a stinging one at that. In fact calling all objections to homosexual conduct "homophobic" is equivalent to reducing philosophy to pathology, and thereby stonewalls any intelligent discussion on the matter. The Institute for Social Research at the University of Saskatoon Saskatoon (săskət n`), city (1991 pop. 186,058), S central Sask., Canada, on the South Saskatchewan River. reports that as many as 5,500 Canadians die premature deaths each year as a result of homophobia. Gens Hellquist, executive director of the "gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered community (GLBT GLBT Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered )" at the university says that, "I think it's safe to say that the 5,500 deaths each year from homophobia are only the tip of the iceberg tip of the icebergn. pl. tips of the iceberg A small evident part or aspect of something largely hidden: afraid that these few reported cases of the disease might only be the tip of the iceberg. ." As far as some people are concerned, being "homophobic" is tantamount to being a serial killer serial killer Forensic psychiatry A person who commits serial murders Prototypic SK White ♂ age 30; 97% are ♂; 80% are sociopaths. See Dahmer, Depraved heart murder, Ice Man. Cf Megan's law, Son of Sam law. . We are asked to believe that it is not the homosexual lifestyle that produces debilitating de·bil·i·tat·ing adj. Causing a loss of strength or energy. Debilitating Weakening, or reducing the strength of. Mentioned in: Stress Reduction results, but the moral objections raised against it. Syndicated columnist Charles Krauthammer has pointed out that alongside of the social trend of "defining deviancy down," is the movement to "define deviancy up." In other words Adv. 1. in other words - otherwise stated; "in other words, we are broke" put differently , as people come to accept homosexual behaviour as normal, they inevitably begin to castigate cas·ti·gate tr.v. cas·ti·gat·ed, cas·ti·gat·ing, cas·ti·gates 1. To inflict severe punishment on. See Synonyms at punish. 2. To criticize severely. those who hold to traditional heterosexual norms. Morality is organic, however. By praising immorality, one necessarily begins to condemn morality. The Catholic Church is about love. But it is also, and in equal measure, about truth since love can be effective only when it is linked with truth. Truth is the reality that saves us from illusory love. It is the truth that makes us free, not feeling good or receiving a standing ovation or having one's plight sympathetically reported in the local newspaper. We live in a disordered world that is the product of innumerable disordered lives. If we cannot recognize a disorder when we see one, because we do not want to hurt someone's feelings, we have taken a decisive step away from love, healing and civilization itself. Dr. Donald DeMarco teaches at Holy Apostles College and Seminary Holy Apostles College and Seminary was founded in 1956 on a 40-acre property in Cromwell, Connecticut, 13 miles south of Hartford by the Very Reverend Eusebe M. Menard, O.F.M., to provide a program of education and formation for men intending to enter the priesthood. . |
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