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Married in Massachusetts: meet the seven gay and lesbian couples whose desire to get hitched led to the court ruling that shook the nation.


Gina Smith and Heidi Norton were in the car with their two young sons when the Massachusetts supreme judicial court's decision in favor of gay marriage was announced over the radio. "In the background they were playing 'Goin' to the chapel,'" Norton recalls, from the 1964 hit song "Chapel of Love." "It almost felt like our family was giving us the news. We screamed and gave high fives to the kids. Then we all started singing along to the music."

Alerted to the impending im·pend  
intr.v. im·pend·ed, im·pend·ing, im·pends
1. To be about to occur: Her retirement is impending.

2.
 decision on November 18, the Northampton couple, both 39, were on their way to a press conference in Boston to meet up with the six other couples who sued the state in 2001 after they were denied marriage licenses. Gloria Bailey, 63, also was driving when she heard the news. Sine started to cry, but that didn't stop her partner of 32 years, Linda Davies This article or section needs sources or references that appear in reliable, third-party publications. Alone, primary sources and sources affiliated with the subject of this article are not sufficient for an accurate encyclopedia article. , 58, from immediately popping the big question. "She 'had 'always told me I had to wait until we could legally get married," Davies says. "I was dying to know the answer. She said, 'Yes.'"

The court ruled 4-3 that same-sex couples A same-sex couple is a pair of people of the same gender who pursue a romantic or sexual relationship together.

The term "same-sex relationship" may be used when the sexual orientation of participants in a same-sex relationship is not known.
 could not be denied marriage and gave the legislature 180 days to come up with a solution. With the successful end to the landmark case landmark case Law & medicine A civil or, far less commonly, criminal action that has had an impact on a particular area of medicine. , all seven couples are now basking in its afterglow afterglow

small amounts of light emitted by a phosphor after the stimulating radiation has ceased. Seen in x-ray intensifying screens and fluoroscopic screens.
. Heartfelt hugs, grateful phone calls, and public rallies have marked the end of their status as second-class citizens, they say.

After the press conference, Hillary and Julie Goodridge, 47 and 46, respectively, went to their 8-year-old daughter Annie's school to deliver the news. "She started screaming and did a cartwheel," Julie Goodridge says. "Then she tried to explain what happened to the other members of her gym class, which became a little complicated." The children didn't understand, Goodridge says, but the adults did. "I walked in to the school and this young teacher, who is gay, cane up to me and gave me a huge hug in the middle of the hallway. He said he had started to cry when he heard the decision. It was just so great."

"We came home from all the interviews and there was a bouquet of flowers on the front porch from a married couple we know," says Ed Balmelli, 43, who took part in the lawsuit with his 44-year-old partner of nine years, Michael Horgan Michael Horgan was an Irish sportsperson in the 1880s and 1890s who played hurling with Aghabullogue.

Born in Aghabullogue, County Cork he first tasted hurling success in 1890 when he won a senior county championship title with his club.
. Gary Chalmers, 38, returned to work to find 91 congratulatory e-mails on his computer. And that night the sister of his 40-year-old partner, Richard Linnell, called and offered to help plan their wedding. "Up until that point, people had made reference to us winning," he says, "but that made it sink in for me: This was real."

For most of the couples, some kind of ceremony or celebration is in the works for the moment the 180 days are up. The Goodridges plan to elope e·lope  
intr.v. e·loped, e·lop·ing, e·lopes
1. To run away with a lover, especially with the intention of getting married.

2. To run away; abscond.
. Bailey and Davies, who were closeted clos·et·ed  
adj.
Being In a state of secrecy or cautious privacy.
 for the first 10 years of their relationship, plan to lave a big church wedding. And Smith and Norton, who held a commitment ceremony in 1993, are planning a celebration that will involve their sons, Avery, 7, and Quinn, 3.

But David Wilson David Wilson may refer to:
  • David Wilson, Baron Wilson of Tillyorn (born 1935), British administrator, diplomat and Sinologist
  • David Wilson (sportsman) (born 1967), Australian rugby union footballer and cricketer
  • David Wilson (swimmer), Australian swimmer
, 59, and Robert Compton, 54, who were joined in a commitment ceremony in the Unitarian Universalist Church in 2000, say another ceremony would lessen the vows they already took. Besides Compton adds, "We consider the date we moved in together as an anniversary, then when we married is another. We certainly don't need a third." And like the others, he says, legal protection, not matrimony MATRIMONY. See Marriage. , was their motivation for joining the lawsuit. He recalls a time when he was rushed to the hospital because of a kidney stone kidney stone
 or renal calculus

Mass of minerals and organic matter that may form in a kidney. Urine contains many salts in solution, and low fluid volume or high mineral concentration can cause these salts to precipitate and grow, forming stones.
 and Wilson was kept in the waiting room. "I was in there by myself, and it was frightening," he says. "They didn't recognize or value our relationship. This court ruling was a statement that validates it."

Aside from the marriage licenses it promises, the ruling alone was an important validation for all gay and lesbian relationships, says Maureen Brodoff, 51, who took part in the suit with her partner of 24 years, Ellen Wade. "When the justices put into words what this meant, it was just such an incredibly moving experience," she says. "It's going to mean a lot of good things for [our community], not just in Massachusetts."

However, Brodoff and the others say they won't be satisfied until they have those licenses in hand. Massachusetts governor Mitt Romney This article or section contains information about one or more candidates in an upcoming or ongoing election.
Content may change as the election approaches.
 joined the state's attorney Noun 1. state's attorney - a prosecuting attorney for a state
state attorney

prosecuting attorney, prosecuting officer, prosecutor, public prosecutor - a government official who conducts criminal prosecutions on behalf of the state
 general in immediately opposing the court's decision and stating his support for civil unions rather than full marriage. "The fight for equal marriage will not be over if that comes to pass," Horgan says. "Civil unions do not fulfill what the supreme judicial court said needs to be done. This fight is not over for us until we have marriage."

Romney and others also support a proposed constitutional amendment to define marriage in the state as the union between a man and a woman. But it would take close to three years for such an amendment to go before the voters, as required by law, Bailey says. In the meantime Adv. 1. in the meantime - during the intervening time; "meanwhile I will not think about the problem"; "meantime he was attentive to his other interests"; "in the meantime the police were notified"
meantime, meanwhile
 a lot of gay couples are going to come out and get married. "Everyone is going to realize they know someone gay," she says. "And it will be their neighbors and family and friends."

Two statewide polls conducted several days after the court's decision showed about 50% support for the ruling. "That reflects two years of conversation in Massachusetts," Hillary Goodridge says. "It's really brought people out of the closet. It's been a great conversation. The rest of the country hasn't bad it yet, but they're catching up."
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Title Annotation:News Of The Year
Author:Caldwell, John
Publication:The Advocate (The national gay & lesbian newsmagazine)
Geographic Code:1U1MA
Date:Jan 20, 2004
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