MSW, RSW, on the need to affirm real marriage.

As our nation prepares to re-examine the question of same-sex "marriage," I am reminded of an article in Psychology Today back in May/June 1996, entitled "Fathers' Time." That article, whose truths are timeless, outlined research mapping out the psychology of the father-child bond and how it differs substantially from the bond between mother and child. Our own childhood memories affirm this truth, which is so deeply embedded in our psyche that it can be difficult to put into words.

Both as someone who has worked with families for many years, and as a parent, I attest that children do suffer without the uniquely different love of both a father and a mother. As a society, we must attempt to support, as best we can, all other situations in which children are growing up; as imperfect human beings, we all need to receive and give compassion. However, we cannot equate other situations to the family as nature designed it, and our laws and institutions must protect and

promote traditional marriage, because it is best for our precious children. I urge our Members of Parliament to correct the most serious mistake of the last parliament; i.e., the attempt to redefine marriage.

Toronto, ON