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Losing everything: all of her life, Kayla, 15, had a place to call home. But last year, her world totally changed when her family lost everything in a violent storm.


I've lived my whole life in Venus, a tiny town in Texas. Growing up, I always thought of my house as the safest, warmest place. My family had a large four-bedroom mobile home. It was big enough but cozy See COSE. . My sister and I had our own bedrooms, and we had four dogs.

But the thing I loved most about my house was my room. It was just me. My walls were covered with a porcelain porcelain [Ital. porcellana], white, hard, permanent, nonporous pottery having translucence which is resonant when struck. Porcelain was first made by the Chinese to withstand the great heat generated in certain parts of their kilns.  doll collection, sunflowers, a yellow VW beetle beetle, common name for insects of the order Coleoptera, which, with more than 300,000 described species, is the largest of the insect orders. Beetles have chewing mouthparts and well-developed antennae.  poster and tons of family photos.

Then last April 23, my world fell apart. My family's nightmare began when my parents and my 2-year-old nephew came to see me play French horn French horn, brass wind musical instrument. Fundamentally a metal tube of narrow conical bore, it is curved into circles because of its great length. The horn ends in a wide flare. It is a development (c.1650) of the small hunting horn.  at a school concert honoring troops in Iraq. Midway through the show, an announcement was made: "It's reported that there will be hail and high winds. If you'd like, you're welcome to go." But everybody stayed to watch the show.

LONG RIDE HOME

After the concert, the storm was so intense my dad had to pull over halfway home Halfway Home may refer to:
  • Halfway Home (album)
  • Halfway Home (TV series)
Not to be confused with:
  • Halfway house
. It felt like the winds would blow our van over. After we hit four detours, we were very worried. My mom said, "My house is gone--I know it!"

I said, "Mom, you're scaring me! You're blowing this way out of proportion." Just down the road from our house, a police car appeared. Then, we saw something huge in the road ... and realized it was our neighbor's house! I felt sick. Their entire house was a block away from where it had been! As we got out of the car, a neighbor drove by and said, "There's nothing there!" My mom fell to her knees, bawling. My dad tried to comfort her, but she was devastated dev·as·tate  
tr.v. dev·as·tat·ed, dev·as·tat·ing, dev·as·tates
1. To lay waste; destroy.

2. To overwhelm; confound; stun: was devastated by the rude remark.
.

We called my sister, who was out with her boyfriend. Luckily, she was safe. But we had left the dogs on the porch. My mom told me to stay in the car while she and my dad looked for the dogs. All I could see were downed power lines and my dad's 18-wheeler. I thought, "This must be someone else's truck," because my dad parks his truck next to our house. Then it hit me--everything was gone, even our house!

I wished I were dreaming and started to cry. But then I thought, "This isn't the time to fall apart." So I pulled myself together and tried to be strong. I sat in the van in disbelief, my nephew asleep in my arms. My dad returned and handed me a porcelain doll he'd found in a field. I cried like crazy. I was happy to get my doll back but, at the same time, I realized how much we'd lost.

It took over an hour for my mom to find the dogs, all in different fields. I was so happy when Beanie bean·ie  
n.
A small brimless cap.



[Probably from bean, head.]

beanie
Noun

Brit, Austral & NZ close-fitting woollen hat

Noun
, my favorite My Favorite is an independent synthpop band from Long Island, New York. They released two CDs: Love at Absolute Zero and Happiest Days of Our Lives. My Favorite broke up on September 14, 2005, when singer Andrea Vaughn left the band. , greeted me. That night, we slept in my dad's truck. We were just grateful to have somewhere to stay.

A STARK REALITY

I woke up praying it had all been a nightmare. But then I looked out the window and knew it was real. Red Cross and Salvation Army Salvation Army, Protestant denomination and international nonsectarian Christian organization for evangelical and philanthropic work. Organization and Beliefs


The Salvation Army has established branches in 100 countries throughout the world.
 workers were handing out food and water. I learned that, thankfully, no one had died in the storm. And of all my friends, I was the only one who lost her house.

My uncle searched for our belongings belongings
Noun, pl

the things that a person owns or has with him or her

Noun 1. belongings - something owned; any tangible or intangible possession that is owned by someone; "that hat is my property"; "he is a man of
, and found one salvageable sal·vage  
n.
1.
a. The rescue of a ship, its crew, or its cargo from fire or shipwreck.

b. The ship, crew, or cargo so rescued.

c. Compensation given to those who voluntarily aid in such a rescue.
 item--our American flag. He and my mom believe our lives were spared because we had honored our troops that night. We flew the flag from our clothesline pole, the only thing left standing.

After three days, I went back to school. Everyone was so nice; one friend even gave me a shirt. That shirt will always be special to me. We only had the clothes we'd worn the night of the storm, so we got $400 from the Red Cross. We felt guilty taking it, but it was helpful. People constantly offered to give us things, but my mom hates handouts. We replaced just the essentials, like kitchen supplies, linens and a TV.

"HOME" AGAIN

We took up temporary residence in a one-room trailer. That was so hard, especially because all our dogs had to sleep inside since there was no fence.

We were totally appreciative to have a roof over our heads, but everyone was stressed. After three long months, our insurance money finally came through. We bought another house that we put in the same spot. The new house was great; it just wasn't home. Our old house was full of irreplaceable memories.

One thing I missed most was the feather pillow Feather pillows are, as the name suggests, pillows stuffed with feathers, usually the rectangular kind used for sleeping in conventional western beds. These are known for both their softness and their ability to conform to shapes desired by the user, more so than foam or fibre  my grandmother gave me before she died. I couldn't sleep on any other pillow, and I was so upset. But my mom found it in a faraway far·a·way  
adj.
1. Very distant; remote.

2. Abstracted; dreamy: a faraway look.


faraway
Adjective

1. very distant

2.
 field, and I swear it was a miracle. I truly believe I got the pillow back because my grandmother is watching over me.

WEATHERING THE STORM

The hardest part wasn't the loss of my things or even the house; it was watching my mom fall apart. That scared me, because it felt like my world had ended. She's always been so strong, and I thought she could survive anything. My sister moved to Arizona after the storm, so I decided to take over for my mom--cooking, cleaning, taking care of my nephew--to give her time to heal.

Even though it's been over a year, my mom hasn't fully recovered. So I guess my biggest loss has been the loss of my childhood. But the "best" thing that has come from losing everything is that I'm more independent and know I can survive anything. I have to admit that, for a while, I was really angry that I had to take on so many adult responsibilities. But as every day passes, my family is getting back to normal and I'm learning to be "the kid" once again.

The most important lesson I got out of losing everything is this: Don't ever take anything for granted. You never know what might happen. If we had stayed home the night of the storm, we definitely would have been killed. Knowing that has really changed my attitude toward life.

Now, I'm focused on living in the present. As for the future, I'm really motivated to make the most of my life--hopefully, by becoming a pediatrician pe·di·a·tri·cian or pe·di·at·rist
n.
A specialist in pediatrics.
. I mean, you really never know when it could all be taken away.

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