Home maker. (In person: Angela Lariviere).FOR THE FIRST, 10 YEARS OF ANGELA LARIVIERE'S life, her family prayed 2 Timothy 1:7 every day: "For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice Cowardice See also Boastfulness, Timidity. Acres, Bob a swaggerer lacking in courage. [Br. Lit.: The Rivals] Bobadill, Captain vainglorious braggart, vaunts achievements while rationalizing faintheartedness. [Br. Lit. , but rather a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline." It is no small challenge to find power, love, and self-discipline when you are a homeless child who has moved 39 times, attended 13 different schools, and slept on couches or at shelters or wherever you and your family can find a place. Despite the physical and mental illnesses Lariviere's mother suffered, and the instability that resulted, the one constant was faith. "We barely had food," she says, "but we always had that basis of faith that carried us." Primary in that faith was the duty to care for those around you. "Even when things were really bad for us, we were always taught to share what we had," Lariviere says. She tells a story of one Thanksgiving Thanksgiving annual U.S. holiday celebrating harvest and yearly blessings; originated with Pilgrims (1621). [Am. Culture: EB, IX: 922] See : America Thanksgiving national holiday with luxurious dinner as chief ritual. [Am. Pop. , now referred to by family and friends as the "turkey incident," when a local church brought a food basket Please [improve the article] or discuss this issue on the talk page. with a turkey for her family. Not much later, a service agency brought another basket--with another turkey. Although her family was usually unsure where their next meal would come from, Lariviere's mother said, "There are lots of people in this neighborhood who could use this. Take it to the neighbors." As one of the children left to deliver the basket, another agency showed up at the door with yet another basket--another turkey! "We got at least five more baskets. It was like we were bringing them out the back door as they came to the front. And it's those experiences that gave me faith." Lariviere always thought she was not like other kids, but she had no idea that as many as 35,000 other children were going through the same thing, in Ohio alone. As a college student, she knew she was different from the other women in her dorm when her little sisters would come and spend the weekends because her family was homeless. "The other girls were going to parties, and I was working two jobs and worrying where my mom was going to sleep," she says. But by advocating for herself, she overcame the odds. In high school she joined the ROTC program to take advantage of a loophole An omission or Ambiguity in a legal document that allows the intent of the document to be evaded. Loopholes come into being through the passage of statutes, the enactment of regulations, the drafting of contracts or the decisions of courts. that allowed her to stay at the same school without proof of a local address. She earned an "A" average. Lariviere believes someone must have been watching out for her, guiding her, and knows that she has found the place where God wants her to be now. "Through complete and total divine intervention A procedure used in a lawsuit by which the court allows a third person who was not originally a party to the suit to become a party, by joining with either the plaintiff or the defendant. " she landed her job at the Coalition on Homelessness The Coalition on Homelessness is the name of a number of homeless advocacy and service organizations, including the Coalition on Homelessness, San Francisco. and Housing in Ohio, where she was able to start the Youth Empowerment Youth empowerment is an attitudinal, structural, and cultural process whereby young people gain the ability, authority, and agency to make decisions and implement change in their own lives and the lives of other people, including youth and adults. Project. As director of the project, Lariviere works with children who are homeless or have been homeless, teaching them to advocate for themselves in local shelters and school systems. She says, "When I come across [homeless] kids, there's not too much they can tell me that I can't relate to." She and the students on her youth council worked to convince Ohio legislators to pass the first state law that protects the right to education for homeless children. And while Lariviere and her husband feed holiday meals to many of the kids and allow them to do laundry Laundry can be:
Before industrialization at their home, she makes it clear that they must carry themselves through. "YEP gives them a community of support, but ultimately they must put their own mind to it. I tell them, 'It's OK to be upset, life isn't going your way. But what will it take to move forward in a positive way?'" The best thing about her job is seeing a student who faces so many obstacles say, "Yes, I can do it. I can graduate." This year, she watched nine YEP members do just that. At 30, and as a mother of two, she now knows the joy of living in the same home for over five years. Even while her husband is serving in the reserves in Iraq, she says they have always been together through the ups and downs ups and downs pl.n. Alternating periods of good and bad fortune or spirits. ups and downs Noun, pl alternating periods of good and bad luck or high and low spirits . Their faith keeps them united, she says, as they try to help others who struggle. "As long as you keep your eye on God's purpose," she says, "you'll always find the right path." ANGELA LARIVIERE COORDINATOR, YOUTH EMPOWERMENT PROJECT PARISH: St. Ladislas, Columbus, Ohio Columbus is the capital and the largest city of the American state of Ohio. Named for explorer Christopher Columbus, the city was founded in 1812 at the confluence of the Scioto and Olentangy rivers, and assumed the functions of state capital in 1816. FAVORITE SCRIPTURE VERSE: Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through him who strengthens me." I'D LOVE TO MEET: President Jimmy Carter. THE GREATEST DAY OF MY LIFE: The day I married Charles, because our priorities match perfectly. WORDS THAT DESCRIBE ME: Determined, loyal, nonjudgmental non·judg·men·tal adj. Refraining from judgment, especially one based on personal ethical standards. Adj. 1. nonjudgmental , always busy. ONE THING I WOULD DO OVER IF I COULD: Have one last conversation with my father before he died. I WISH MORE PEOPLE KNEW: The majority of homeless people are families with children, and many of them work. TARA K. DIX Dix , Dorothea Lynde 1802-1887. American philanthropist, reformer, and educator who was a pioneer in the movement for specialized treatment of the mentally ill. Noun 1. , an assistant editor of U.S. CATHOLIC. |
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