Happy Father's Day, Dad; you're a great role model.Byline: Grace Stopher/20Below News Team/The Register-Guard After 15 years of receiving Father's Day presents from me, my dad probably owns every woodworking tool ever invented, and his drawers are absolutely overflowing o·ver·flow v. o·ver·flowed, o·ver·flow·ing, o·ver·flows v.intr. 1. To flow or run over the top, brim, or banks. 2. To be filled beyond capacity, as a container or waterway. 3. with multicolored neckties. So this year, I didn't buy him anything for yesterday's big day. Instead, I thought I'd write about him. I've always wondered why my dad is so important to me. Every family is different, but what I've learned from my dad - and what I've yet to learn - is more than can fit into a 500-word column. For example, despite how frustrated frus·trate tr.v. frus·trat·ed, frus·trat·ing, frus·trates 1. a. To prevent from accomplishing a purpose or fulfilling a desire; thwart: I get with his rules and expectations, I'm really learning how to be responsible. Often, I forget that my dad was, believe it or not, once a teenager like me, and that he's already learned his lessons. Now he's passing those lessons on to me. In addition, my dad has the most passionate work ethic work ethic n. A set of values based on the moral virtues of hard work and diligence. work ethic Noun a belief in the moral value of work of anyone I know, and I think that is one of the key lessons he is trying to teach me right now. He likes doing everything himself if he can, and strongly believes in the motto, "work before pleasure." Like most teenagers, I find this to be the hardest rule to abide by To stand to; to adhere; to maintain. See also: Abide . I don't understand how my dad manages to work, work, work, without complaining until the job is finished, but it is definitely something I look up to. Someday some·day adv. At an indefinite time in the future. Usage Note: The adverbs someday and sometime express future time indefinitely: We'll succeed someday. Come sometime. , I hope to have that same drive that will help me succeed as my dad has succeeded. But fathers don't only have to be role models. In fact, my dad enjoys nothing more than spending time "Spending Time" is the first single released by Christian artist Stellar Kart. The lyrics describe the band members desire to spend "more time with God". "Sometimes it’s a real struggle to spend time with God. on our boat, and he always seems to be asking friends to join us for pleasantly lazy days at the lake. Even my friends think he's pretty cool. He has certainly earned his place as the entertainer of the family. Furthermore, my dad is, above all, my prime model of an ideal man. He's taught me what I should and should not tolerate tol·er·ate v. 1. To allow without prohibiting or opposing; permit. 2. To put up with; endure. 3. To have tolerance for a substance or pathogen. and how I should expect any guy to treat me. For example, he has the respect of a gentleman and strongly believes in opening doors and letting ladies go first. I think fathers are meant to educate their daughters the fundamentals of life. My dad is my protection, my role model and even a confidant whom I can ask advice. I have faith that he'll always be there when I need him, and so far he's fulfilled ful·fill also ful·fil tr.v. ful·filled, ful·fill·ing, ful·fills also ful·fils 1. To bring into actuality; effect: fulfilled their promises. 2. that hope. Love is better than any necktie I could ever give him, anyway. Grace Stopher will be a sophomore this fall at Sheldon High. She can be reached at 20Below@guardnet.com. |
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