Guys q&a.I have a crush on a cute shy guy in my band, but his best friend asked me out. Should I tell his BFF BFF Best Friends Forever (chat) BFF Best Foot Forward BFF Ben Folds Five (band) BFF Born Free Foundation BFF Binary File Format BFF Boston Film Festival BFF Biotech Finance Forum I'm not interested because I like his friends? [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] DAVE A file sharing program from Thursby Software Systems, Inc., Arlington, TX (www.thursby.com) that allows a Macintosh to share files with a PC. Designed specifically for and needing installation only on the Mac, DAVE works with Microsoft's native SMB/CIFS file sharing protocols and uses First off, decide which is more important--a boy or the band. Keeping the right chemistry among a group of folks attempting to make music can be challenging under the best of circumstances. Mix dating bandmates into the arrangement, and things will get out of tune fast. Stick to the music with your friends, and leave the slow dancing to the audience. BILL Maybe you can introduce shy guy's BFF to one of your friends and suggest a double-date. That might help diffuse diffuse /dif·fuse/ 1. (di-fus´) not definitely limited or localized. 2. (di-fuz´) to pass through or to spread widely through a tissue or substance. dif·fuse adj. a potentially challenging situation. After all, if the BFF gets his feelings hurt, he might steer shy guy away. Bad harmony. My boyfriend is freaked out by the fact I have my period. He found out because I bled through my pants, and now he is uncomfortable around me. How can I get things back to normal? BILL Though periods are a fact of life for girls, they're a total mystery to boys. Give him a little understanding--but not too much. After all, you deserve a guy who's just as concerned about your comfort level as his own. DAVE A guy freaked out by periods is doomed to a lonely, female-free existence. With a little research on his part (and perhaps some schooling from you), he'll come to realize that what he witnessed is perfectly natural and, indeed, a fact of life. My BF has a cell, but I don't. He always texts people, and I don't know Don't know (DK, DKed) "Don't know the trade." A Street expression used whenever one party lacks knowledge of a trade or receives conflicting instructions from the other party. who. Thing is, none of his friends have phones. Who is he texting? DAVE If a boyfriend's phone calls are shrouded shroud n. 1. A cloth used to wrap a body for burial; a winding sheet. 2. Something that conceals, protects, or screens: under a shroud of fog. 3. a. with a certain amount of secrecy, it is not unreasonable for a girl friend to ask, "What's up with that?" Same with a text message--a girl has a right to know who she's involved with ... and who he is involved with. If he doesn't agree, you are free to press "end" on this so-called relationship. BILL Kinda Adv. 1. kinda - to some (great or small) extent; "it was rather cold"; "the party was rather nice"; "the knife is rather dull"; "I rather regret that I cannot attend"; "He's rather good at playing the cello"; "he is kind of shy" kind of, sort of, rather annoying of him to text people when he's with you. Here's a text you might give him: UR 2 RUDE 4 A GF. [ILLUSTRATION OMITTED] What does it mean when guys tell me they think I would be a good stripper Stripper Slang for an individual homeowner who strips the equity out of his or her home through mortgage refinancing. Proceeds are generally not re-invested, but spent on consumer goods. Notes: Most people get rich by saving and investing wisely. ? Does that mean they like me, or are they making fun of me? BILL It probably means they're watching way too much cable TV. As is typical in the world of slow-to-mature guys, they're probably attempting to give you a compliment. But does a compliment from a Neanderthal really count? What to do about these boys? They're glaringly glar·ing adj. 1. Shining intensely and blindingly: the glaring noonday sun. 2. Tastelessly showy or bright; garish. 3. ignorant, so ignore them. DAVE Respond to these guys--once and only once--by telling them they will one day make great loser strip-bar patrons. It'll be your way of letting these dudes Dudes may refer to:
tr.v. de·meaned, de·mean·ing, de·means To conduct or behave (oneself) in a particular manner: demeaned themselves well in class. to all females. DAVE'S DUDE DEMYSTIFIER Why do guys have a different definition of "date"? Whenever I ask my boyfriend for a date, he wants me to come over to his house to hang out when I want to go to a movie. Guys need directness. If you want to see a movie, ask him to go to the movies. And specify which flick so you don't get stuck watching some smash-'em-up action adventure. Baffled by boys? Crush have you confused? Dave clears it up online each week! Log on to girlslife.com for answers to your guy questions. |
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