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Go ahead, make my day! Your mission brighten someone else's day. Equipment your natural charm and creativity, plus GL's 10 simple starter ideas. Guaranteed result you'll make someone smile and feel loads better yourself!


If everyone were to follow one simple rule, the world would be just about perfect. What's the rule? Basically, it's about treating other people how you want them to treat you. Hey, it's the right thing to do. And there are major side benefits: You'll feel better (really!), and people will like you even more than they already do. Try these tips, and watch as more smiles come your way--guaranteed! Niceness rubs off, dude.

PASS OUT COMPLIMENTS LIKE CANDY

You're walking to geometry, minding your own and, next thing you know, a stranger drops a compliment about your hot new shoes. Feels good, huh? If you've noticed the girl at the next lunch table has worn really cool outfits the last two weeks straight, why not tell her you think her clothes are fab? Who knows? Maybe your words will jumpstart a friendship. Try to think of people who rarely receive praise--your math teacher, your bus driver, the guy who rounds up shopping carts at the grocery store. A few simple words of appreciation might be enough to outweigh the negative stuff they deal with all day.

STICK UP FOR THE UNDERDOG

Every school has the bullies ... and the bullied. Next time you observe an innocent person being picked on, boldly tell the bullies to back off. You'll establish a rep as a girl who's not afraid to stand up for herself and others--and even bullies know better than to mess with mess with
Verb

Informal, chiefly US to interfere in, or become involved with, a dangerous person, thing, or situation: he had started messing with drugs 
 that kind of confidence. Sometimes, all it takes is one person willing to challenge The Bully. You don't have to be tough or over-the-top. Just flex your cool and calmly say, "Does it make you feel better about yourself to diss diss  
v.
Variant of dis.


diss
Verb

Slang, chiefly US to treat (a person) with contempt [from disrespect]

Verb 1.
 someone else?" Knowing someone's got her back can be a huge relief to someone on the receiving end of a tease attack.

A LETTER MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER

When's the last time you got mail? Not AOL (A division of Time Warner, Inc., New York, NY, www.aol.com) The world's largest online information service with access to the Internet, e-mail, chat rooms and a variety of databases and services.  style. We're talking about the paper-and-pen kind that comes in a mailbox. We place it on the top-10 list of Best Feelings in the World! It takes only a few minutes to jot a note and 37 cents to mail it--a small price to make someone's day, don't you think? Personalize notes with stickers and doodles Doodles can mean the following:
  • A doodle is an informal scribble or sketch.
  • Doodles is the former mascot of Chick-fil-A, replaced by the Eat Mor Chikin campaign in 1997.
  • Doodles Weaver was an American comedy actor.
, and use colorful stationery. Write to friends, grandfolks, even your sister.

BE THE LAST COMIC STANDING Last Comic Standing is an American reality television talent show that premiered in 2003. The objective of the program is to select a comedian from a group, who will receive a development contract with the NBC television network and a special first to air on the cable-TV  

You're not a natural-born comedian? No prob. Snagging laughs is more about being spontaneous. Think of Phoebe on Friends--her comments are so out-there, you can't help but laugh. Goofy Goofy

bumbling, awkward dog; originally named Dippy Dawg. [Comics: “Mickey Mouse” in Horn, 492]

See : Awkwardness
 notes or objects planted in random spots guarantee laughs. Stick a set of googly eyes This article is about the plastic craft accessory. For body language intending to initiate Courtship, see Wink and Staring.

Googly eyes or wiggly eyes are large, bulging or rolling eyes.
 (from any craft store) on your bud's locker or parents' toilet seat. Sign up to receive free e-mail See Internet e-mail service.  jokes, and memorize mem·o·rize  
tr.v. mem·o·rized, mem·o·riz·ing, mem·o·riz·es
1. To commit to memory; learn by heart.

2. Computer Science To store in memory:
 the good ones for cafeteria standup stand·up or stand-up  
adj.
1. Standing erect; upright: a standup collar.

2. Taken, done, or used while standing: a standup supper; a standup bar.
. (Work on your delivery at home--joke-telling is all about good timing.) Got a cellie? Leave a hilarious voicemail greeting. Anyone who calls gets an instant laugh--or at least a slight grin and an eye-roll.

HOLD THE DOOR MORE

Holding the door for someone is such a simple gesture, but watch how faces light up. Hold the door for elderly people, moms with strollers, the guy leaving Starbucks with half a dozen tall lattes for his office buddies. Politeness is rare, and people will be thrilled when you show common courtesy. Don't be surprised if you catch yourself helping out in other small ways--like helping a friend haul her backpack, clarinet and posterboard project to school.

GO UNDERCOVER

You've heard the term "random acts of kindness." Try it! Get up early, and start your dad's coffee. Set the dinner table before your mom She goes to the gym.  asks you to. You can even be totally anonymous. Tuck a smiley-face note on the windshield of your friend's car. Drop an extra buck in the tip jar at the bagel shop. Leave a single wildflower wildflower

Any flowering plant that grows without intentional human aid. Wildflowers are the source of all cultivated garden varieties of flowers. A wildflower growing where it is unwanted is considered a weed.
 in a vase on your friend's dresser when she's not looking. No blabbing that you're the do-gooder!

SAY IT WITH SWEETS

Next time you bake your extra-gooey, mega-chocolatey brownies, double the recipe. Take the extra batch next door. You'll make their mouths water--and you'll make friends! Not that you should be nice for selfish motives, but ... when you invite friends over for an end-of-summer barbecue, your neighbors will be less likely to complain about the music.

REMEMBER

... birthdays, important events, the name of the super-shy kid in gym class. When you remember details about someone's life, it lets them know you think they're important. When you know someone's going through a tough time, ask if there's anything you can do. Everyone wants to feel like they matter. So pay attention when people tell you what's going on What's Going On is a record by American soul singer Marvin Gaye. Released on May 21, 1971 (see 1971 in music), What's Going On reflected the beginning of a new trend in soul music.  in their lives, and remember to ask about it later.

PRETTY UP THE PLACE

You don't have to run for county council to contribute to your community. Pick up trash. Plant flowers. Rake leaves. Look into volunteer opps, too. Visit old folks in a nursing home, tutor elementary-school kids after school, or serve up meals at a soup kitchen. It might feel like a huge deal--but you'll feel great once you do it. Spread the love.

SMILE, NO NEED TO SAY CHEESE

A positive, upbeat attitude is totally contagious. Don't believe us? Next time you come across a grump in the dumps, flash him a grin and a cheerful "hello." Most people will crack a smile or at least lose the sullen sul·len  
adj. sul·len·er, sul·len·est
1. Showing a brooding ill humor or silent resentment; morose or sulky.

2. Gloomy or somber in tone, color, or portent: sullen, gray skies.
 look. Without being obnoxious, make it a goal to bust their crust. You never know what stuff they've gone through. A simple smile can make a world of difference to someone.
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