From one track to another: releasing the past can lead to a rewarding future.It was a Thursday afternoon in 1992 when Linda Bond, now 49, made the life-changing decision to leave her position as a senior-level human resources The fancy word for "people." The human resources department within an organization, years ago known as the "personnel department," manages the administrative aspects of the employees. executive and go back to school to become a lawyer. "It's one thing to lose your job and be forced to pursue something new; it's quite another thing to quit," says Bond, who resigned from her 12-year career at GTE GTE General Telephone & Electronics GTE Génie Thermique et Énergie (French) GTE Gas Turbine Engine GTE Global Tropospheric Experiment GTE Geothermal Energy GTE Gas Turbine Efficiency plc (Sweden & USA) , a telecommunications company See telecom company. that later merged with Bell Atlantic to form Verizon. Bond, now a partner with Rumberger, Kirk & Caldwell in Tallahassee, Florida For other uses, see Tallahassee (disambiguation). Tallahassee is the capital of the State of Florida and the county seat of Leon County. Tallahassee became the capital of Florida in 1824. As of 2006, the population recorded by the U.S. , says she knew it was time to make a life change but adds that while the idea of becoming a lawyer was promising, success wasn't guaranteed. Bond took certain steps to ease the transition. Find yourself in a similar situation? Try these tips to ensure success: * Be responsible. In her book, Coach Yourself to a New Careen A Book to Discover Your Profession (iUniverse; $13.95), Deborah Brown-Volkman says career changers
The Changers are a fictional group of anti-hero published by Wildstorm an imprint of DC Comics. should take responsibility for their choices--and that includes attitude. She suggests asking yourself: Does the attitude I have inspire me to achieve my goal? Does it give me confidence? Does it reflect the person I want to be? If you didn't answer yes to all three questions, then you should consider adjusting your attitude. Bond says that making such a significant life change was an emotional roller coaster What a bad CD-R disc is often called. See CD-R and underrun. , and she admits she conducted an attitude check on a daily basis. * Be positive. See your transition as an opportunity to learn, grow, and excel. Carole Kanchier, Ph.D., author of Dare to Change Your Job--and Your Life (list Publishing: $16.95) and principal of Questers, a career consulting group, says every time you hear your inner voice criticize crit·i·cize v. crit·i·cized, crit·i·ciz·ing, crit·i·ciz·es v.tr. 1. To find fault with: criticized the decision as unrealistic. See Usage Note at critique. you or stir up doubt, stop and think of something positive to say to yourself, aloud. For example, say "I am making progress" or "I will be a success." * Be focused. Don't attempt to accomplish all your goals at once. List and prioritize pri·or·i·tize v. pri·or·i·tized, pri·or·i·tiz·ing, pri·or·i·tiz·es Usage Problem v.tr. To arrange or deal with in order of importance. v.intr. them and set a realistic timeline. Review your list in moments of distraction to remind yourself to stay the course. Bond recalls having to sign up for the Law School Admission Test less than one week after deciding to change careers. She says being focused was the key to preparing for the exam. * Be committed. Resist your natural desire to stay in your comfort zone. "I knew I was committed when I sold my house in Connecticut and registered for school several thousand miles away in Florida," explains Bond. * Be patient. Understand that significant change doesn't happen overnight. Although it took more than three years to become the lawyer she dreamed of being, Bond says, "It was well worth waiting for my change to come." |
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