Dying to Live: A Spiritual Case Story of a Secular Counsellor.

Dying to Live: A Spiritual Case Story of A Secular Counsellor

David Midgley

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"Dying to Live: A Spiritual Case Story of A Secular Counsellor" is a spiritual life history of David Midgley, an unusual psychotherapist trained in both Transactional Analysis and also classic Jungian approaches to therapy. Midgley deftly weaves a varied tapestry of many of his significant life experiences both as a therapist and counselor, and also as a humble individual. His interests in occult areas as well as his commitment to Methodist lay ministry are explored. Many black and white photos of mentors or other significant people in his life are included that add to the text. Although "Dying To Live" is a relatively slim book, it contains an amazing amount of precise, clinical detail and anecdotal memory. In true nonjudgmental tradition, the style is to present the information and leave the conclusion(s) to the reader, though the author's reactions and responses are also described, sometimes clinically. The author's considerable contributions to British/European practice of TA therapy and teaching, lecturing and preaching are sparely presented. As "Dying to Live" concludes its final chapter, "The Anteroom," Midgley explains that he is in the process of experiencing motor neuron disease, a deterioration of the nerve fibers that help convey signals from the spinal cord and brain to the rest of the body. The disease's progression is generally outlined, and Midgley's acceptance of his status is tentatively explored. He remains as active and independent as it is possible for him to be. The writing of "Dying To Live" is a part of his determination to fulfill his life goals and contracts with himself. Perhaps Midgley's greatest gift is his ability to touch the reader. A sense of humility, pride, and mingled determination and grace suffuse the work. "Dying To Live" is about accepting imperfections and making the most of them. Above all, it is about choosing to live all the natural span of days allotted, with dignity, grace, and joy.