Do you go for the best ... or settle for less? Are you scorin' all the great stuff you deserve in life--or playin' it super safe?It's a big, beautiful blast to be all that you can be. But going after goals means sticking your neck out a little bit. Are you the kinda gal who does what it takes to get what's best for you--or could you be shortchanging yourself a wee bit? Take this quiz to find out if you're striking the right balance between risk and rejection. 1 Your music teacher announces she's holding tryouts for spring-concert solos. Are you so there? A) You betcha--it's about time the world finds out you're the next Carrie Underwood Carrie Marie Underwood (born March 10, 1983) is an American pop country music singer who won the fourth season of American Idol. She has since become a multi-platinum selling recording artist. . B) No, thanks--you're allergic to embarrassment. Better to stay hidden in the back row during chorus. C) OK, you'll push past the butterflies and give the audition a shot. 2 You dig Austin--really. Still, he's not your dream dude. So when he asks to be your boyfriend, what's your move? A) You let him down easily. If you're not feelin' it, it's uncool to pretend Austin's your one-and-only. B) You say, "Yes." OK, so he's not perfect--but he's into you. C) You tell him you're not into it but that you want to hang with him as a bud. 3 Which celeb's vibe do you mose admire? A) Natalie Portman Natalie Portman (Hebrew: נטלי פורטמן; born June 9, 1981) is a Golden Globe-winning, Academy Award-nominated Israeli-American actress. . She's been to Harvard, scored an Oscar nomination and ruled the galaxy! B) Emma Roberts. Yeah, she has a mega-famous aunt on her side--but she's still fabulous. C) Kelly Clarkson Kelly Brianne Clarkson (born April 24 1982) is an American pop rock singer. Clarkson made her debut under RCA Records after she won the highly publicized first season of the television series American Idol in 2002. . She's a superstar but still down-to-earth. 4 Your crew orders a huge pizza with the works. The sec that yummy pie hits the table, you ... A) Playfully push your buds outta the way and grab the biggest, cheesiest slab. B) Hang back 'til everybody selects a slice--nobody likes a greedy gimme-girl. C) Reach for the piece directly in front of you. If you don't get a ton of toppings, it's not the end of the world
It's Not the End of the World is a 1972 novel for teenagers; it was written by Judy Blume. . 5 You're pulling down a solid B+ in bio. If you tackle two extra-credit labs this quarter, though, you can probably eke out eke out Verb [eking, eked] 1. to make (a supply) last for a long time by using as little as possible 2. an A. Are you willing to put in the time? A) Of course! It's totally worth nudging your GPA GPA abbr. grade point average Noun 1. GPA - a measure of a student's academic achievement at a college or university; calculated by dividing the total number of grade points received by the total number attempted . B) Neh. A B+ is nothing to sniff at--you'll cruise with it. C) You'll have to see if you can clear a space in your schedule--making b-ball captain this season is just as important to you. 6 On your b-day, your dad proudly presents you with a cell phone--way cool but not the model you wanted. What's your move? A) You tell him it rocks, then discreetly exchange it. B) You tell him you're totally psyched and keep it. C) You thank him for the great gift but ask as nicely as possible if you can kick in your allowance to get the upgrade. 7 You and your buds wanna wan·na Informal 1. Contraction of want to: You wanna go now? 2. Contraction of want a: You wanna slice of pie? start an all-girl band. Which instrument are ya itchin' to rock out on? A) Lead guitar. Watch out, Cheyenne! B) Tambourine tambourine (tăm'bərēn`), musical instrument of the percussion family, having a narrow circular frame and a single parchment drumhead, with metal plates or jingles set in the frame. . It's impossible to mess up in front of an audience. C) Keyboards. Your big bro has taught you a few simple chords--and, hey, it's all about fun. 8 You and your BFF BFF Best Friends Forever (chat) BFF Best Foot Forward BFF Ben Folds Five (band) BFF Born Free Foundation BFF Binary File Format BFF Boston Film Festival BFF Biotech Finance Forum Beth are pitted against each other by your indoor track coach to run a sprint. Do you feel OK goin' all-out against your girt'? A) Psyched! "Competition" is your middle name. B) No way--you're fakin' an achin' ankle. You don't feel comfortable chargin' hard against a bud. C) Sure--it totally doesn't mean you've dissed Beth if ya beat her. MOSTLY A's DESERVIN' DIVA You definitely go for the awesome stuff life has to offer--because you know you are so worth it. When it comes to going after something you want, you never doubt yourself. You're rock-solid sure you have the talent and ability it takes to attain anything. You're beyond-willing to take risks to make a gain--you'll always land on your feet, right? Congrats con·grats Informal interj. Congratulations. pl.n. Congratulations: sent him my congrats. on that confidence--it'll take you places! What you've gotta watch out for, though? Hurting other people by accident in your quest to be the best. Never get so "all about me" that you stomp on stomp on - To inadvertently overwrite something important, usually automatically. "All the work I did this weekend got stomped on last night by the nightly server script." Compare scribble, mangle, trash, scrog, roach. your buds' feelings, or compete so hard for something that you come off looking wag ruthless or selfish. Instead, show the world you've got a little taste of humble pie humble pie n. A pie formerly made from the edible organs of a deer or hog. Idiom: eat humble pie To be forced to apologize abjectly or admit one's faults in humiliating circumstances. (instead of jumping all over that pizza pie). No need to step on anybody's toes on the road to awesomeness. MOSTLY B's MODEST MOUSE You're a really chill gel, and that's admirable. You don't live for the limelight--you're perfectly happy to let others shine. Your strategy is to keep expectations on the low side to avoid disappointment if what you hope for doesn't happen. That's a natural instinct--trouble is, it's not much fun. If you're going to make strides, you need to take leaps in life. Sure, this can be scary. If you step up and take a risk, you might fail at something or someone could reject you. In the big honkin' picture, though, that's really not so bad. If you happen to try something and trip up, you can learn from your mistakes and make it great next time around. You absolutely deserve great and groovy groov·y adj. groov·i·er, groov·i·est Slang Very pleasing; wonderful. groov i·ness n. things, so
don't settle for life's crumbs. Bite into the whole delicious
cookie!
MOSTLY C's BALANCED BABE You're straight-up sensible when it comes to doin' and pursuin'. You feel worthy of getting everything fab that's due ya, but you're way careful not to make out-there moves that might actually put what you want out of reach. Before taking a risk, you evaluate the sitch from all angles and feel just fine about taking your sweet of time to decide whether the thing you want is really worth it. Be careful never to let your friends talk you out of going at your own pace--so what if they say turtles move faster? It's smart to process all the necessary info before leaping, so enjoy the speed that's right for you--and keep up your positive 'tude. Being way-optimistic helps you see all of life's awesome possibilities. ILLUSTRATIONS BY SARA Sara or Sarah, in the Bible, wife of Abraham and mother of Isaac. With Rebekah, Rachel, and Leah, she was one of the four Hebrew matriarchs. Her name was originally Sarai [Heb.,=princess]. SCHWARTZ |
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