Dear MIRIAM: He holds back in bed.Byline: Dr MIRIAM STOPPARD Noun 1. Stoppard - British dramatist (born in Czechoslovakia in 1937) Sir Tom Stoppard, Thomas Straussler, Tom Stoppard Dear Miriam MY boyfriend of three months won't have sex with me. He wants to wait until we know each other better. He's not a virgin but he has this weird idea that celibacy celibacy (sĕl`ĭbəsē), voluntary refusal to enter the married state, with abstinence from sexual activity. It is one of the typically Christian forms of asceticism. will be a proper test of our feelings. I'm worried he doesn't really fancy me. DOESN'T it show how much he cares for you and the relationship? Don't try to rush things. You have a really good man on your hands. He's not saying never, he waiting to be sure the time is right for you and him. You may find discussing the issue and trying to understand each other's perspectives strengthens the relationship. |
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