Dave's dude demystifier.

Why do some guys feel the need to be players?

Because some girls are attracted to it. If not for girls for a guy to play, there'd be no player. When a girl sees a guy with a pretty girl, she figures there must be a reason for it and wants to be in that girl's place. Flirting ensues, the guy gets cocky because two girls dig him, and the whole thing builds when a third girl enters the scene. So a player is born, through no fault of his own. OK, he has choices--but some guys choose to play.