Changing Your Relaitonships - Falling Back in Love

There are three things we would like you to try, before going much further. Are you willing to try some ways of changing your relationship?

Changing your Relationships.



There are three things we would like you to try, before going much further. Are you willing to try some ways of changing your relationship?

1/ Stop. That's right stop. Stop trying, doing, being, thinking, worrying, judging him or her, expecting anything, Stop, sit under a tree, lie on the grass, no smooching, no bonking, just stop. Be dead, together, be dead. Let the stars watch you, or you watch a tree grow. Let it happen. This is how you were when you fell in love - in the dumb world of "gee I duno" and then the thinking started.... so STOP, please. 10 minutes morning and night. And if they won't do it with you, then that's a sign in itself.

2/ Be wrong. Be wrong allot. Be so bloody wrong. Be so wrong you're sexy. Right people are dumb people. Fearful, manipulative liars are righteous. Be wrong. It's humble, intimate, learn to say "I duno" allot. You be right and you'll put your partner off sex. They'll be thinking of someone else. So, thank them like there's no tomorrow. Over cook it. Thank you thank you and appreciated the things they do right. There are two sides to everyone, so eventually all relationships end up in love with an angel who'se and arsehole. So, know there's two sides and focus on the good news.

3/ Turn your whole attention to then. Relationships fail because people ask "what do I want out of this" instead of saying "what makes my lover feel good about themselves" now the most powerful gift you can give anyone, man, woman or child is to ask them about their dreams. You can ask your partner about their dreams and work out how, by being with you, they'll get it. If you can't, you're stuffed anyway. So think it through, say "honey, what would your magic wish be for 10 years from now, then, think, "what do I have to do with that?" If the answer is nothing, start packing. So find out their dreams in all 7 areas of life and find ways to be an important part of that.

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