CONSUMER NEWS: Preparing for the hereafter.Assist your loved ones loved ones npl → seres mpl queridos loved ones npl → proches mpl et amis chers loved ones love npl in funeral planning Yudelka Sterrett vividly remembers when the call came that her 43-year-old father had been in a car accident. Just days later, hospital administrators asked the family if they could harvest her father's organs, since there was nothing more they could do to save him. Because her family had no idea of her father's wishes, they denied the request. A short time later, Sterrett's father died. While no money had been set aside for funeral arrangements, the family picked up the costs. The experience prompted Sterrett's family to put some mechanisms in place for the future. "Since my father's death, my family has purchased nine plots," she comments. "We'll be more prepared next time." Have you properly prepared your loved ones for the inevitable? Probably not. At best, you may have written a will or started the estate planning Estate Planning The overall planning of a person's wealth, including the preparation of a will and the planning of taxes after the individual's death. Notes: Contrary to popular belief, estate planning involves much more than preparing a will, and it is not only for the process, but that won't address your family's immediate concerns. Unfortunately, the person responsible for making your final arrangements will be forced to make major decisions and purchases within 48 hours of your death. While you can't alleviate the stress your survivors will experience, you can assist them by having a plan outlining your funeral wishes. "Preplanning your funeral allows you to decide the method of disposition you wish, the kind of services you want and allows your family to focus more on grieving grieving Mourning, see there and recovery," says Kelly Smith Kelly Smith (born 29 October 1978 in Watford) is an English football player who currently plays in England for Arsenal Ladies. Previously, she was the only English player to play in the Women's United Soccer Association, the former professional women's league in the United States. , public relations public relations, activities and policies used to create public interest in a person, idea, product, institution, or business establishment. By its nature, public relations is devoted to serving particular interests by presenting them to the public in the most manager for the National Funeral Directors Association. Preplanning also allows you to make important decisions with a clear head. "From an emotional standpoint, people tend to make more rational and logical decisions when they preplan," advises Carolyn Whigham, owner of the Whigham Funeral Home in Newark, New Jersey. Whigham suggests you begin the process by visiting various funeral homes in your community and deciding where you think your family would be most comfortable. Then, have an open discussion with the licensed funeral director at that facility about your choices. "You can do it yourself privately or bring some family members with you," she adds. Those you choose to make your final arrangements should be aware of your choices and informed about any bereavement Bereavement Definition Bereavement refers to the period of mourning and grief following the death of a beloved person or animal. The English word bereavement entitlements. Vietnam veterans This article is about the French band. For veterans of the Vietnam War, see Vietnam veteran. The Vietnam Veterans were a six-person French psychedelic group that released six records in the 1980s. The band was praised by many alternative music publications. , for example, qualify for a free burial at a national cemetery, a free grave marker and other services. Some union and fraternity members also receive death benefits. Although religious or moral convictions will probably dictate your final arrangements, preplanning ensures these preferences are effectively communicated to your family. Your plan should focus on the type of memorial or funeral service funeral service n → misa de cuerpo presente funeral service n → service m funèbre funeral service funeral n you desire, a method of disposition (earth burial, entombment or cremation cremation, disposal of a corpse by fire. It is an ancient and widespread practice, second only to burial. It has been found among the chiefdoms of the Pacific Northwest, among Northern Athapascan bands in Alaska, and among Canadian cultural groups. ) and location. Here are some general guidelines to start your preplanning process: * Determine your method of disposition. In funeral planning, it's best to start with the last step and work backwards. Your final resting place will influence how your body is prepared, what products or services are required, and how much your arrangements will cost. Most Americans are buried underground. According to according to prep. 1. As stated or indicated by; on the authority of: according to historians. 2. In keeping with: according to instructions. 3. the National Funeral Directors Association, earth burials averaged $4,700 in 1996 excluding cemetery plot or monument expenses, which could run another $2,000-$3,000. The second most popular and most expensive alternative is entombment, which places the remains or cremains cre·mains pl.n. The ashes that remain after cremation of a corpse. [Blend of cremated, past participle of cremate and remains.] Noun 1. (if cremated) in an above ground tomb or stone mausoleum mausoleum (môsəlē`əm), a sepulchral structure or tomb, especially one of some size and architectural pretension, so called from the sepulcher of that name at Halicarnassus, Asia Minor, erected (c.352 B.C. . This option is particularly popular in regions where geographical restrictions preclude earth burials. Costs range from $1,500 to more than $4,000. A lesser known option is direct cremation which can cost under $1,000--especially if a casket is not used in the process. If you're interested in donating your body to a medical school for research, this alternative is free--as long as the arrangements are made in-advance. * Plan your ceremony. Do you want an open casket viewing? Are there any particular religious aspects that you want incorporated in your ceremony? Are there any organizations, friends or co-workers that should be included? Consider these and other questions that your family may have as concerns. * Itemize To individually state each item or article. Frequently used in tax accounting, an itemized account or claim separately lists amounts that add up to the final sum of the total account on claim. your costs. The Federal Trade Commission, which offers a free funeral planning guide titled Caskets and Burial Vaults (202-326-2222), has made it easier for consumers to comparison shop. The FTC FTC See Federal Trade Commission (FTC). Funeral Rule requires funeral directors to give pricing information over the phone and provide you with a price list if you come in person. It also allows you to purchase caskets--the single largest funeral expense, averaging $2,500--from outside vendors without the threat of a carrying charge Carrying Charge A cost associated with holding a financial instrument or storing a physical commodity over a defined period of time. Notes: Carrying charges include fees such as insurance, storage, and other related costs. . Direct Casket, for example, offers discounted coffins ranging from $195 to $3,495. For additional assistance in itemizing your funeral costs, POWERsolutions has created PreNeed ($39, 800-955-3337), a software package that offers a step-by-step guide through the decision-making process and helps you generate a final report, although it's not very graphic or interactive. A similar report can be developed by using a basic word processing word processing, use of a computer program or a dedicated hardware and software package to write, edit, format, and print a document. Text is most commonly entered using a keyboard similar to a typewriter's, although handwritten input (see pen-based computer) and or spreadsheet program. Aside from prepaying for a burial plot, it's generally not recommended that you prepay pre·pay tr.v. pre·paid, pre·pay·ing, pre·pays To pay or pay for beforehand. pre·pay  ment n. for funeral-related products or services.
According to Lisa Carlson, author of Caring for the Dead: Your Final Act
of Love (Upper Access Books, $29.95), "unless you need to set aside
assets for Medicaid eligibility, it's better to invest your money
in a higher interest-bearing account." Consumers have lost money
because funeral parlors that sold pre-need plans went out of business,
didn't cover all expenses or were only available at one location.
Instead, Carlson advises that you leave the pricing information in your
plans for loved ones."We prepare for babies, colleges and buying a home, but we never prepare for death," says Sharon Seay, executive director of the National Funeral Directors and Morticians Associations. "Pre-need planning enables your family to know what your intentions are and eases the burden they will experience after you're gone." Pre-need Resources The Living Bank International P.O. Box 6725 Houston, TX 77265-6725 800-528-2971; www.livingbank.org A registry service for organ donation. American Association of Retired Persons AARP Fulfillment 601 E St. NW Washington, DC 20049 Write for the free publication, Pre-Paying for Your Funeral. Cremation Association of North America 401 N. Michigan Ave., Suite 2200 Chicago, IL 60611 312-644-6610 CANA has more than 750 members that own and operate crematories. Funeral Services Consumer Assistance Program P.O. Box 486 Elm Grove, IL 53122-0486 800-662-7666 FSCAP outlines steps to settle disputes between consumers and funeral sevice contractors. If a settlement isn't reached, FSCAP will supply a list of local or federal agencies to assist. Everything Your Heirs Need to Know by David S. Magee and John Ventura, Dearborn Financial Publishing, $19,95. Besides worksheets for your final wishes, this book also outlines steps for organizing your assets and compiling family medical and personal history. |
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