Boyfriend is texting other girls he says are just pals.

Byline: Joan Burnie

Q I DON'T pick up prostitutes because they are all druggies. But I do go to saunas regularly.

It's the only place someone like me can get relief. I'm in my 50s, over weight and my own wife has refused me sex for more than four years.

But now I've fallen in love with one of the sauna girls. She's a really sweet kid. She's only working there until her English improves and she can get a proper job. She says she loves me.

Am I being a mug or should I ditch my wife for her?

A YOU'RE a mug. Sorry to be blunt but you did ask. While she's working in the sauna, I suppose it's almost okay or honest.

Take it outside and it'll be very different. You would be better to lose the weight and perhaps the wife, as well. Switch to a gym and a good diet.

Then, see if you can find yourself a decent relationship with someone who isn't bought and paid for.