Bossy friend.

My friend always bosses me around, and I can't stand it. What should I do?

Naseem H., New York

As you have discovered, some people tend to try to tell you what to do. It is perfectly acceptable to refuse. Without being rude, you can let your friend know that you want to make your own decisions. If your friend can't respect your wishes, then you might want to spend time with others instead.

It's a good idea to talk to your parents about concerns like this. They may have some suggestions.