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Billy in the out field.


After having read the June 24 issue three times, tears still come to my eyes. The pride material is very refreshing, especially "Billy Bean's Pitch." Bean has profound insight on the goings-on in pro sports. While he does not say so pointedly, he reveals his feelings while traveling the coming-out process. For that I have only praise for his courage.

Bob Meima, Via the Internet

Billy Bean's only "accomplishment" was staying in the closet until it was safe for him to come out. So how come he rates an Advocate cover (his second) while a true gay rights pioneer like Evan Wolfson Evan Wolfson (b. February 4, 1957) is a prominent American civil rights attorney and advocate. He is the founder and executive director of Freedom to Marry, a national non-profit organization working for marriage equality between gay and straight couples.  is buried in the middle of the issue? Easy. Because Bean can be photographed flashing Iris armpits in a tank top.

Steve Kluger, Santa Monica, Calif.

Michael Gross hit a home run with his story about Billy Bean and his new book, Going the Other Way. I just finished reading the book and highly recommend it to anyone interested in people and our society.

Jerry Mainer, Gambrills, Md.

Writer Michael Joseph Gross Michael Joseph Gross (born 1970) is an American author and journalist.

He has written extensively for publications such as The New York Times, The Boston Globe, The Nation and Blender.
 states, "Some would argue, not without reason, that admiring jocks such as Billy Bean signals some discomfort with the essential queerness of gay life." Boy, if it isn't crapola crap·o·la  
n. Vulgar Slang
Rubbish; nonsense.



[crap1 + -ola (probably modeled on trade names like Shinola, a brand of shoe polish).]
 like this statement that kept me a "closeted clos·et·ed  
adj.
Being In a state of secrecy or cautious privacy.
" football and basketball fan as a young kid, because I knew I was probably gay from an early age and was under the impression that the typical gay kid "didn't like" or was "too queer" for sports--be it as a participant or merely as a spectator and fan. I'm angry that small minds, both gay and straight, continue to further ridiculous stereotypes. What a shame that some kid who likes to watch sports or wants to play football or baseball or basketball might be made to feel that admiring someone in the field he or she aspires to is somehow a reflection that they are uncomfortable with their innate sexuality.

John Shepherd, Los Angeles, Calif..

I have only three words to say regarding Billy Bean: "Oh, my God!" Thank you for sharing this man, who is beautiful both inside and out. Efrain Veiga is one lucky man!

Alan Ferrara, San Francisco, Calif.

As too many of your recent covers suggest, gay men will overlook even the most disturbing messages--including homophobic ones--as long as they're served up with a lavish side of beefcake beef·cake  
n. Informal
1. Images, especially photographs, of minimally attired men with muscular physiques.

2. Attractive men with muscular physiques, such as those in these images.
. I am delighted that Mr. Bean has found happiness and fulfillment beyond the closet door. However, his myopia myopia: see nearsightedness.  is infuriating.

In defending his right to remain closeted throughout his lucrative career, he says that if one's livelihood is "specifically contingent upon your ability to work among people who might persecute per·se·cute  
tr.v. per·se·cut·ed, per·se·cut·ing, per·se·cutes
1. To oppress or harass with ill-treatment, especially because of race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, or beliefs.

2.
 you, then it's a fair decision to keep your life private." Fair? According to whose terms?

As a double minority, I've never had the luxury (nor would I accept it were it offered) of denying my ethnicity by keeping it "private" in a bigoted big·ot·ed  
adj.
Being or characteristic of a bigot: a bigoted person; an outrageously bigoted viewpoint.



big
 world. It's no wonder wide chasms exist between communities of color that have struggled for hard-won civil rights and gay communities whose poster boys, cuteness notwithstanding, include the likes of Billy Bean.

Pablo Miguel Martinez San Antonio, Tex.

I don't care whether Billy Bean thinks professional athletes should stay in the closet for the sake of their careers. All I ask is that he face the camera whenever he takes his shirt off and, if possible, wear Speedos.

Ed Sikov, New York New York, state, United States
New York, Middle Atlantic state of the United States. It is bordered by Vermont, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and the Atlantic Ocean (E), New Jersey and Pennsylvania (S), Lakes Erie and Ontario and the Canadian province of
, N.Y.
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Date:Jul 22, 2003
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