BRINGING SEXY BACK THIS LADY'S GODIVA HELPS REKINDLE SPARK AFTER ILLNESS.Byline: Brent Hopkins Staff Writer The lights are low, and Percy Sledge Percy Sledge (born November 25 1940, in Leighton, Alabama) is an American R&B and soul performer. Career Percy Sledge worked in the fields in Leighton before he worked as an orderly at Colbert County Hospital in Sheffield. croons ``When a Man Loves a Woman'' in the background as Rochelle Scott talks business. She wears a tasteful taste·ful adj. 1. Having, showing, or being in keeping with good taste. 2. Pleasing in flavor; tasty. taste suit and speaks in a pleasant, soft tone. In one hand, she holds a long, blue feather and explains how it could be used in an intimate setting. ``I could sit on one end of the bed and touch the entire body with this feather,'' she says. ``If you're wearing a mask to enliven en·liv·en tr.v. en·liv·ened, en·liv·en·ing, en·liv·ens To make lively or spirited; animate. en·liv en·er n. the other senses, it's very relaxing.'' Far from a boudoir with candles burning, Scott is at work, surrounded by lotions and lingerie and all manner of vibrating vibrating, v using quivering hand motions made across the client's body for therapeutic purposes. devices. She owns Godiva's After Dark, which she refers to as ``a boutique for romance.'' This is not a normal store, not even a typical shop for adult products. The recently opened establishment in Woodland Hills targets women and men coping with cancer and other serious illnesses. A range of concerns Scott's main business, Godiva's Secret Wigs, gave birth to the shop, springing from discussions with customers. As she helped chemotherapy patients adjust to lives without hair, the conversation would often wander to intimacy issues. They watched their eyelashes dry out, skin tighten and weight fluctuate-- and worried they'd be unable to bounce back in the bedroom. ``How do you wear lingerie if you don't have a breast?'' said Debbi Kleinzweig, a Tarzana oncology nurse oncology nurse Nursing A nurse specialized in treating and caring for people with cancer Salary $53K + 2% bonus. See Oncology. who helped advise Scott on how to stock the store. ``How do you feel sexy with a big incision incision /in·ci·sion/ (in-sizh´un) 1. a cut or a wound made by cutting with a sharp instrument.incis´ional 2. the act of cutting. in·ci·sion n. 1. down your abdomen? I don't know Don't know (DK, DKed) "Don't know the trade." A Street expression used whenever one party lacks knowledge of a trade or receives conflicting instructions from the other party. of anyone else who deals with this. It's almost taboo for people to talk about it, but how else do you feel comfortable?'' So Scott pulled out the money she'd banked to buy a house and put $40,000 into founding the business. She bought negligees that covered scars, erotic games to stoke imaginations, stimulants Stimulants A class of drugs, including Ritalin, used to treat people with autism. They may make children calmer and better able to concentrate, but they also may limit growth or have other side effects. Mentioned in: Autism to excite relationships interrupted. Rekindling the flame And she quickly became an expert on such issues as the effects of premature menopause Premature Menopause Definition The average age at which American women go through menopause is 51 years. If menopause (hormonal changes at the end of the female reproductive years) occurs before age 40, it is said to be premature menopause. on sex drive and how to coach a couple, passion cooled by cancer, back to intimate terms. ``Chemotherapy is about the most horrendous year in a woman's life,'' Scott said. ``Bringing romance back is so hard. The man wants it again, but he doesn't want to push. Then the woman interprets that as disinterest dis·in·ter·est n. 1. Freedom from selfish bias or self-interest; impartiality. 2. Lack of interest; indifference. tr.v. To divest of interest. Noun 1. .'' Scott carefully calculated the store's look to appeal to a well-heeled customer, and the results seem to be working. ``It's an upscale store, very classy,'' said Bonnee Lallouz, membership director of the Woodland Hills Chamber of Commerce. ``You'd never believe how many people showed up for the ribbon cutting ... lots of men. They were all very curious about what they'd find. And they seemed pretty happy.'' Before the year is up, Scott hopes to recoup her initial investment and see a profit. She already has her eyes on expansion and is considering franchising. ``One of the greatest gifts is to share intimacy with someone that you love,'' Scott said. ``I picked things that can bring romance back to a relationship.'' Brent Hopkins, (818)713-3738 brent.hopkins@dailynews.com CAPTION(S): 4 photos Photo: (1 -- cover -- color) Reconnecting after CANCER The path back to intimacy (2 -- 4 -- color) Rochelle Scott shows off one of the wigs she offers to cancer patients at Godiva's After Dark, the Woodland Hills shop she calls "a boutique for romance." Other things she stocks to help couples get into the mood include heart-shaped scented candles, left, and books on sensuality, right. |
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