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BOOK HELPS NEOPHYTES LEARN FINE POINTS OF RELIGIOUS ETIQUETTE.


Byline: Steve Getzug

Title: "How to Be a Perfect Stranger A Perfect Stranger is a Danielle Steele romance novel, published in 1981. "

Editor: Arthur J. Magida

Data: Jewish Lights Publishing; $24.95

You've been invited to a bris? Well, mazel tov ma·zel tov also ma·zal tov  
interj.
Used to express congratulations or best wishes.



[Mishnaic Hebrew mazz
!

Problem is, you don't know Don't know (DK, DKed)

"Don't know the trade." A Street expression used whenever one party lacks knowledge of a trade or receives conflicting instructions from the other party.
 what to wear. Should you bring a gift? And, hey, what's a bris anyway?

That's where "How to Be a Perfect Stranger" comes in. The 417-page guide is an etiquette primer for a wide range of religious ceremonies and a straightforward resource for this "melting pot" world of ours.

Practical in its approach, the guide's nonjudgmental non·judg·men·tal  
adj.
Refraining from judgment, especially one based on personal ethical standards.

Adj. 1. nonjudgmental
 answers to the most basic of questions for religions ranging from Assemblies of God to the United Church of Christ United Church of Christ, American Protestant denomination formed in 1957 by a merger of the General Council of Congregational Christian Churches (see Congregationalism) and the Evangelical and Reformed Church.  should make even the most ardent nonbeliever at least comfortable in an unfamiliar setting.

The answers are based on questionnaires filled out by clergy and other religious experts. Each chapter is devoted to a religion or denomination and are organized around that religion's life-cycle events.

Its editors warn that the guide is not intended as a substitute for common sense: Casual dress for a colleague's Hindu wedding probably doesn't mean Bermuda shorts.

It is, however, intended to break down barriers.

"For understanding to increase, our differences need not disappear," Sanford Cloud Jr., president of the National Conference of Christians and Jews, writes in the guide's forward. "... It's time we stopped ignoring the racial, ethnic, cultural and religious fault lines that divide us and our experiences and start finding the way forward for all communities."

In today's diverse world, education breeds tolerance, and that's what the guide is all about.

And about that bris, the Jewish ceremony for a baby boy's circumcision circumcision (sûr'kəmsĭzh`ən), operation to remove the foreskin covering the glans of the penis. It dates back to prehistoric times and was widespread throughout the Middle East as a religious rite before it was introduced among the , don't sweat it.

Dress is casual and gifts are customary. Don't get there late or you'll miss the main event. But watch the flash photography - blinding the mohel A mohel (מוהל in Hebrew, mo'el in Ashkenazic pronunciation, mohel in Sephardic pronunciation which is the pronunciation used in modern Israel) is a Jewish ritual circumciser who performs a brit milah ritual circumcision on the penis of a male  at the wrong moment could lead to some serious gender confusion later.

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Publication:Daily News (Los Angeles, CA)
Date:Feb 20, 1996
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