BFF dilemma of the month: my BFF's new friend sits with us at lunch, and she doesn't like me. It's really tense at the lunch table now.

I've tried to talk to my BFF about this new girl, but it's a big problem--especially in the caf. What should I do?

Talk to the new girl. Making a new friend will benefit you, and lunchtime will be more fun. Try to be extra nice, and don't say anything that might start a fight. If that doesn't work, find some other friends to sit with until things cool down.

--Melanie

Find out stuff you all have in common, and talk about it at the table. Maybe it'll break the ice so she won't judge you when she doesn't even know you. Maybe you can all be friends.

--Aimee

Tell your BFF's friend how you feel. Maybe you said something to offend her. Or give her a compliment, saying, "I like that skirt," or, "Cool gloss." Make her feel as if you have no problem with her, and try your best to ignore a bad situation.

--Savannah

I'm sure your BFF is just afraid to hurt anyone's feelings. Take a deep breath and realize, hey, this isn't as serious as you thought. Just be nice to this not-so-friendly friend. Maybe you can get along.

--Erica

You should ask the girl what you did to make her upset with you. It may be difficult if she accuses you of things you didn't do, but keep your cool and let her know you'd really like a fresh start. Best of luck.

--Kirstin