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Are you a gossip-friendly gal pal? what would you do if your BFF became the target of gossip gone wild? Would you jump to your friend's defense or let loose lips fly? Find out! (Quiz).


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 is spreading through the halls faster than chicken pox chicken pox or varicella (vâr'əsĕl`ə), infectious disease usually occurring in childhood. It is believed to be caused by the same herpesvirus that produces shingles.  in a first-grade classroom? What's a friend to do? Are you the kind, of gal who's never met a juicy tidbit she didn't want to get her mitts on and toss around? Maybe you're an as-no-questions/defend-her-to-the-end friend--even if it means stretching the truth. Or is covering for a bud just not your style? Not sure what you'd do? Oh, dear. Take this quiz to find out if you're a sideliner side·lin·er  
n.
One that remains on the sidelines; a nonparticipant.
, heavy hitter heavy hitter
n.
One that is predominant, as in influence or power: "Especially when a candidate is a challenger, appearances with heavy hitters from the party lend an air of credibility" 
 or team player when it comes to fielding gossip that's going around about your BFF.

1: In the locker room before b-ball practice, some girls are dissing your BFF Amy's fashionista efforts for last Friday's dance. She spent weeks painstakingly perfecting her wraparound-lace/pinstripe ensemble, but these girls can't stop talking about her "Salvation Amy clown suit." What do you do?

A. Go pit bull! Interrupt the jokesters with a nice, big locker slam. "Um, hello? Who are you--the fashion police? Here's a thought Instead of focusing on someone else's business, think you could focus on actually getting the ball in the basket today?"

B. Play it cool. Those girls are always on the inside loop. No need to ruin your link to Grand Gossip Central. Besides, "Salvation Amy clown suit" is pretty funny.

C. You're tempted to shout, "So what if Amy wasn't dressed in head-to-toe GAP like you clones!?" But why cause a scene? When practice lets out, you'll kindly tell Amy what they said.

2: Word is your BFF spent Saturday night snuggling with Suzy's guy. Your BFF denies it and is telling everyone she was with you--but she wasn't! What do you do?

A. Swear on your cat's life she was with you.

B. Go along with it this time...but only because it's a rush to be in the midst Adv. 1. in the midst - the middle or central part or point; "in the midst of the forest"; "could he walk out in the midst of his piece?"
midmost
 of the mayhem! No denying it--this is good gossip!

C. You have no clue what went on that night, but she can forget it if she thinks you're going down with her. When asked, you shrug your shoulders and say, "I don't know Don't know (DK, DKed)

"Don't know the trade." A Street expression used whenever one party lacks knowledge of a trade or receives conflicting instructions from the other party.
 what's going on What's Going On is a record by American soul singer Marvin Gaye. Released on May 21, 1971 (see 1971 in music), What's Going On reflected the beginning of a new trend in soul music. . I spent the weekend at my dad's," which you did.

3: Your BFF is booted from the debate team after getting busted bust·ed  
adj.
1. Slang
a. Smashed or broken: busted glass; a busted rib.

b. Out of order; inoperable: a busted vending machine.

2.
 smoking in the girls' bathroom. Only you know the deal, and she wants everyone to think she quit the team. The girls suspect something's up. What do you do?

A. Stick with her story--it's not debatable. If she trusts you with the truth, she trusts you to do whatever it takes to keep her rep squeaky-clean. You guys are on the debate team--you can convince people the sky is pink. You'll have no trouble clearing the air. So what if it isn't completely true?

B. Go along with her story, but drop subtle hints that there's more than meets the eye More Than Meets the Eye was the three-part series premiere for the 1984 cartoon The Transformers. The three-part pilot was originally known simply as The Transformers : "Yeah, well, I can't say what happened. She swore me to secrecy." Technically you haven't spilled--but you've put out the vibe that you're the one with the inside scoop.

C. Remind her of the cause-and-effect phenomenon. Like, the effect of her smoking caused the debate coach to drop her from the team like a bad habit bad habit Unhealthy habit Clinical medicine A patterned behavior regarded as detrimental to physical or mental health, which is often linked to a lack of self-control. Cf Good habit. . You're friends and teammates, but it's not up to you to create a smokescreen to cover up her poor decision-making! If the team lights a lire under you for the truth, you'll say "I don't feel comfortable talking about this. You should ask her."

4: Your two best friends Amanda and Ashley are on the outs because Amanda has been spilling Ashley's secrets. Amanda has made a buddy boo-boo but, if you get on her about it, your secrets could be next! What do you do?

A. You stick up for friends, no matter what, but Amanda's disloyalty dis·loy·al·ty  
n. pl. dis·loy·al·ties
1. The quality of being disloyal; faithlessness.

2. A disloyal act.

Noun 1.
 upsets you and, worse, she hurt Ashley. You can't ignore that. You remind Amanda that keeping secrets is crucial to forever friendships and to not be so outspoken with people's private lives.

B. You'd be a fool to take sides. It totally stinks that Amanda got busted blabbing, but her loose lips Loose Lips is a politics column published in the Washington City Paper, a United States of America (U.S.) alternative weekly newspaper serving the Washington, D.C., metropolitan area. It is billed as "The definitive guide to hometown politics in the nation's capital.  have brought some for-real excitement to your social life/Anyway what are you--a referee?

C. Think Switerland and stay neutral. You back off and let the two of them work it out. Why take sides? It'd just complicate things.

5: A pal slipped that your BFF's fam might be having financial problems. Your BFF hasn't said a word to you, but she'd freak if she knew people were gossiping about her family's personal biz. What do you do?

A. Give the gossipmongers a piece of your mind. When it comes to family matters, it's totally uncool to blab! So you interrogate (1) To search, sum or count records in a file. See query.

(2) To test the condition or status of a terminal or computer system.
 every single person who might have gotten wind of the info and then fill your bud in on what's going 'round. What are friends for?

B. Investigate. Hmmm, you must get as much dirt as possible. This is major! Once you get the scoop, you'll hint to your friend that you know something...and then offer to spring for her caf lunch.

C. Yikes yikes  
interj.
Used to express mild fear or surprise.



[Origin unknown.]
, this is serious. Before getting involved, you ask your parents for their worldly advice since you wouldn't want to do or say the wrong thing. They always point you in the fight direction.

If you got mostly A's, you're

THE BUDDY-GUARD

As far as friends go, you're at the top of the list. You've got your bud's back, no matter what! So what if you have to stretch the truth a tad? The way you see it, there's only one way--the loyal way. Your friends trust you, and that's a cool thing. It's great to be such a solid friend! But there's a downside. What happens if she expects you to cover for her, like, all the time? She could wind up treating you more like an alibi than an amigo! If she's involved in something that's truly a threat to her well-being, think twice before you staunchly defend her. Covering for her "crimes" could make you an unwitting accomplice. Even if you're clean as a whistle, you're guilty by association. Or, just as bad, a total doormat. Though people might respect your loyalty, they'll also see that you'd do anything to protect your friend--even lie to them. A BFF who expects you to put your reputation on the line is concerned with saving her own neck. Keep things in perspective and, in the end, you might decide that even loy alty has its limits!

If you got mostly B's, you're

THE FEARLESS ENTERTAINER

You're sociable and charming. People like you, and that's probably why gossip has no trouble making its way to your ears. You've got a direct line to the latest, greatest dirt. And, well, you've never had a problem passing along the scoop. No doubt about it--Inside Edition could contact you for a top story! Being an insider on what's what can definitely be exciting stuff. Face it--knowledge is power, and you're in the know!

Your philosophy is this: If someone tells you something, it's fair game--even if it's not always a friendly game. You probably have plenty of pals who seek you out for details when major stuff goes down--but you might have trouble maintaining super-tight friendships. Has gossip ever gotten you into trouble? Has it ever destroyed a bud bond? If so, it's time It's Time was a successful political campaign run by the Australian Labor Party (ALP) under Gough Whitlam at the 1972 election in Australia. Campaigning on the perceived need for change after 23 years of conservative (Liberal Party of Australia) government, Labor put forward a  to chili. Girls with the gift of gab gift of gab
n.
The ability to talk readily, glibly, and convincingly.
 are quick to be discovered and put on the diss diss  
v.
Variant of dis.


diss
Verb

Slang, chiefly US to treat (a person) with contempt [from disrespect]

Verb 1.
 list. People might like to share good, juicy gossip with you but, pretty soon, that's all you'll be--the goddess of gossip. It only takes a couple spills before girls will learn to think twice before telling you a darn thing. Plus, the more gossip you dole out Verb 1. dole out - administer or bestow, as in small portions; "administer critical remarks to everyone present"; "dole out some money"; "shell out pocket money for the children"; "deal a blow to someone"; "the machine dispenses soft drinks" , the more likely it is that you'll be passing along false or exaggerated info. The only thing people like less than a blabbermouth is an unreliable one! It's OK to dig into Verb 1. dig into - examine physically with or as if with a probe; "probe an anthill"
poke into, probe

penetrate, perforate - pass into or through, often by overcoming resistance; "The bullet penetrated her chest"
 some friendly gossip with your pals--just keep their secrets, well, secret!

If you got mostly Cs, you're

THE HONEST AMIGO

You're all about keeping it real. You're a fab friend, but twisting the truth just isn't your thing. Why risk your own stellar rep to cover for someone else's gab-gone-bad? But is honesty always the best policy? Would you confirm one of your close pal's top secrets for the whole gang just because they asked? Sometimes, playing "dunno" or saying you're not at liberty to discuss something is way better than blurting out the dirt. Maybe you've sensed that you're occasionally banished from the circle of all things gossipy. So what? Since you don't want to sell out your friends anyway, perhaps being less in the know isn't such a bad thing after all. If you are hanging with a group of friends who are gabbing about staff that makes you uncomfy or sense that you're about to be put in a compromising position ("Is Brittany really crushing on Jason?"), your best bet could be to change the subject pronto pron·to  
adv. Informal
Without delay; quickly.



[Spanish, from Latin prmptus; see prompt.
 or take a quick lap around the non-fiction section of the library. There truly are times when ignorance is bliss, Miss.
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