Addressing the root cause of bullying.In response to replies regarding my letter "Pondering pon·der v. pon·dered, pon·der·ing, pon·ders v.tr. To weigh in the mind with thoroughness and care. v.intr. To reflect or consider with thoroughness and care. the Real Meaning of Care" (June issue, p3), I in no way wished to insult any individuals but simply shared my experience as a woman/nurse with Multiple Sclerosis and as a nurse working alongside others in a professional role. As a patient, on-and-off, I can state in all good faith that many nurses I have been cared by appear to be tacking the fundamental "gift" of empathic em·path·ic adj. Of, relating to, or characterized by empathy. Adj. 1. empathic - showing empathy or ready comprehension of others' states; "a sensitive and empathetic school counselor" empathetic care. I agree that age and/or experience are often inconsequential in·con·se·quen·tial adj. 1. Lacking importance. 2. Not following from premises or evidence; illogical. n. A triviality. . I strongly agree with comments made by Jacquie Kidd ("Avoiding stereotypical nursing images", July issue, p4) that horizontal violence and/or bullying Bullying Chowne, Parson Stoyle terrorizes parish; kidnaps children. [Br. Lit.: The Maid of Sker, Walsh Modern, 94–95] Claypole, Noah bully; becomes thief in Fagin’s gang. [Br. Lit. is alive and well in some institutions. It has almost become an accepted part of some perverse per·verse adj. 1. Directed away from what is right or good; perverted. 2. Obstinately persisting in an error or fault; wrongly self-willed or stubborn. 3. a. "right of passage" and is a sad reflection on what should be a caring profession, not only for those entrusted into our care but, perhaps more importantly, for our peers whom we work alongside day after day. "Bullying" is a term with broad implications, easily used and hard to defend yourself against, should you be accused of it. It is the "race" card of this century. Nursing as a whole needs to took inside itself and see what causative caus·a·tive adj. 1. Functioning as an agent or cause. 2. Expressing causation. Used of a verb or verbal affix. caus factors have brought us to this very sad place. Are we striking out in frustration at those most easily targeted, in response to a perceived lack of respect by other allied health professionals? Are our working conditions finally tipping us over the edge? We need to address the root cause, once it can be identified. Jeanette Robins, RN, Stratford |
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