A visible life: superstar novelist E. Lynn Harris talks about his new memoir, from growing up "sissy" in the South to achieving success beyond his dreams. (books).
In his 1991 debut novel, Invisible Life, E. Lynn Harris E. Lynn Harris is an Black American author, (b. June 20, 1955). Harris writes primarily about African American men on the down low or in the closet; Harris confirmed that he is a homosexual. He lives in Fayetteville, Arkansas and Atlanta, Georgia. captivated cap·ti·vate
tr.v. cap·ti·vat·ed, cap·ti·vat·ing, cap·ti·vates
1. To attract and hold by charm, beauty, or excellence. See Synonyms at charm.
2. Archaic To capture. readers with his sexy yet romantic and emotional story of a young black man struggling to come to terms with his sexuality. A year earlier Harris himself nearly lost his own struggle with that very same issue. In August 1990, in a one-bedroom apartment in Washington, D.C., a very depressed Harris made the decision to end his own life. "I felt that my family's love was not enough and that I had no reason to believe in God, much less live another day." What was so upsetting? The belief that he couldn't bear the pressure of going through life as a gay black man.
Fortunately, his suicide attempt suicide attempt, suicide bid n → intento de suicidio
suicide attempt, suicide bid n → tentative f de suicide
was unsuccessful. Since releasing his first novel, Harris has become one of America's most popular writers. Now, 13 years and seven novels later, including five that have been on The New York New York, state, United States
New York, Middle Atlantic state of the United States. It is bordered by Vermont, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and the Atlantic Ocean (E), New Jersey and Pennsylvania (S), Lakes Erie and Ontario and the Canadian province of Times best-seller list, Harris is telling a new story: his own.
What Becomes of the Brokenhearted bro·ken·heart·ed
overwhelmed by grief or disappointment
Adj. 1. has all the dramatic elements of a compelling piece of fiction: an abusive, homophobic ho·mo·pho·bi·a
1. Fear of or contempt for lesbians and gay men.
2. Behavior based on such a feeling.
[homo(sexual) + -phobia. stepfather step·fa·ther
The husband of one's mother and not one's natural father.
a man who has married one's mother after the death or divorce of one's father
Noun 1. , a real father the young hero discovers while still an adolescent, only to lose him in a tragic accident before he gets to know him; early sexual experiences; a young man's constant struggle for acceptance; the loss of friends and lovers as an adult; and the final crash at the bottom before his eventual rise to the top. Harris shares the positive experiences that have helped him become the proud, successful, happy black gay man he is today.
Why write a memoir, as opposed to another novel, and why now?
I felt like the more I talked to people in the press, the more bits and pieces of the story would get out anyway. It also gave me a chance to look back on the relationships that were so strong and positive in my life--the friends I've had for all these years.
What was the hardest part to write about?
All of it was hard. But I wouldn't have done it if I thought it would bring back pain that I couldn't recover from. I didn't want this to be a "woe is me Woe Is Me is the twelfth serial in the United States children's television series My Little Pony. Synopsis
The Little Ponies provide shelter to Woebegone, a wandering hobo who brings bad luck and disaster wherever he goes. " type of memoir, and a couple of years ago it would have been.
So you feel like you've reached a point where you can say, "I've healed and I can move on"?
I don't think we ever totally heal. I think you'd be fooling yourself to think that. But I can move on, and that's what I'm doing.
Can you say you've forgiven your stepfather?
To be honest, I don't think about my stepfather. I moved on.
What would you say to young folks with similarly homophobic parents?
I would advise them to simply hold on and know that better days are ahead. Parents in most cases do the best that they can with the skills they have, given their backgrounds. I know it's rough, but try not to take it personally--people don't know Don't know (DK, DKed)
"Don't know the trade." A Street expression used whenever one party lacks knowledge of a trade or receives conflicting instructions from the other party. how to deal with what they don't understand. Just hold on to the belief that one day you'll be on your own and be able to make a life for yourself.
Even when parents don't change, the world does.
Kids today have so many resources that weren't available 20 years ago. If you look online or in magazines like this one, you can find information on places where you can get help. The most important thing I could probably say is, find some support and find a way to get help. Don't suffer in silence.
Judging by the title, a reader might think your story is mostly a sad one.
But it's not. This story has a happy ending. I'm here to say that brokenhearted people, whether they've had their hearts broken by love or family members or what have you, can survive it. They can find happiness, and they can find love.
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