A Special Delivery: Mother-Daughter Letters From Afar.Book Review: A Special Delivery: Mother-Daughter Letters From Afar, by Joyce Slayton Mitchell and Elizabeth Dix MitchellEquilibrium equilibrium, state of balance. When a body or a system is in equilibrium, there is no net tendency to change. In mechanics, equilibrium has to do with the forces acting on a body. Press, $12.95, 877-357-7377 When I heard about Joyce Slayton Mitchell and Elizabeth Dix Mitchell's book entitled en·ti·tle tr.v. en·ti·tled, en·ti·tling, en·ti·tles 1. To give a name or title to. 2. To furnish with a right or claim to something: A Special Delivery: Mother-Daughter Letters from Afar, how could I resist perusing its pages? This is a beautiful little book comprised of letters between a mother and daughter, which culminate culminate, in astronomy, the maximum height in the sky reached by a celestial body on a given day. At the culminate the body is crossing the observer's celestial meridian and is said to be in upper transit. in Elizabeth's (the daughter) announcement that she's pregnant and the description of her birth. Elizabeth takes the reader through her learning experiences in New Zealand New Zealand (zē`lənd), island country (2005 est. pop. 4,035,000), 104,454 sq mi (270,534 sq km), in the S Pacific Ocean, over 1,000 mi (1,600 km) SE of Australia. The capital is Wellington; the largest city and leading port is Auckland. , including how she is self-sufficient, her many transportation issues, and her new love. Joyce's (the mom (1) (Messaging-Oriented Middleware) See messaging middleware. (2) (Microsoft Operations Manager) Software that monitors and captures system and application events throughout the network. ) letters give the reader a lot of family history, as well as Joyce's tales about her busy life as a college advisor. The story is entirely true. The twist with these letters is that Mom lives in the States and Daughter lives in New Zealand. Both Mom and Daughter have strong viewpoints regarding health, life, eating habits, safety, and pregnancy and birth, among others, and they are usually different, if not entirely opposite. The readers learn more and more about each woman through each successive letter. Moreover, the readers learn about--no, get drawn into--the relationship between the two and can sympathize, if not empathize em·pa·thize v. To feel empathy in relation to another person. , with each. I found that my personal beliefs about the safety of homebirth were questioned by Joyce, not on an intellectual level, but on an emotional, motherly moth·er·ly adj. 1. Of, like, or appropriate to a mother: motherly love. 2. Showing the affection of a mother. adv. In a manner befitting a mother. level. I'm sure these letters will have the same effect on other readers no matter what their personal birth beliefs. Deeper than the story the letters present, this book explores a close, yet unconventional, mother-daughter relationship, as well as cross-cultural issues and the traditional "generation gap" that affects many, if not all, adult children and their parents. After constantly reading texts, medical articles, and birth references, this book is refreshing. Although it doesn't address as specifically as I had hoped the issues of midwives and homebirths, that was not the goal of this book. A Special Delivery aims to provide not only a birth story, but a relationship story--and it has well succeeded. |
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