A LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS.Byline: Vincent Bonsignore There is a rosebush on the campus of Burbank's Bell-Jeff High. It was planted there last week by members of the Bell-Jeff and Ribet Academy basketball teams. It was an unlikely pairing, these players from two rival teams who could meet in the playoffs later this season. But tragedy has a way of bringing people together, even people who may never have taken the time to know one another otherwise. The rose is in memory of Lawrence Lawrence. 1 City (1990 pop. 26,763), Marion co., central Ind., a residential suburb of Indianapolis, on the West Fork of the White River. It has light manufacturing. 2 City (1990 pop. 65,608), seat of Douglas co., NE Kans. Jenkins Jen´kins n. 1. A name of contempt for a flatterer of persons high in social or official life; as, the Jenkins employed by a newspaper s>. , who died Nov. 29 after collapsing at basketball practice at Ribet Academy. Jenkins, 17, had played the past three years at Bell-Jeff. He transferred to Ribet over the summer, hoping for a little more playing time and exposure. His teammates at both schools, devastated dev·as·tate tr.v. dev·as·tat·ed, dev·as·tat·ing, dev·as·tates 1. To lay waste; destroy. 2. To overwhelm; confound; stun: was devastated by the rude remark. by the loss of their popular, easy-going eas·y·go·ing also eas·y-go·ing adj. 1. a. Living without undue worry or concern; calm. b. Lax or negligent; careless. c. friend, wanted to do something for Jenkins, to show him they still cared, and that they'd they'd 1. Contraction of they had. 2. Contraction of they would. they'd have ~would never forget him. So they planted the rosebush in Jenkins' name. Then they took a little time to talk. The rose was their gift to Jenkins. In return, he gave them friendship. ``There was great communication between the players,'' said Bell-Jeff coach Elli Essa. ``We were both Lawrence's teams, so we've sort of adopted one another. We're pulling for them and they're pulling for us. We promised them we'd come watch them play, and they said they'd come watch us.'' This was typical Jenkins. Bringing people together. ``That's what Lawrence liked to do,'' said Carlos Arroyo Carlos Alberto Arroyo (born July 30 1979 in Fajardo, Puerto Rico) is Puerto Rican professional basketball player. Arroyo is the fifth player from Puerto Rico to play in the NBA. Arroyo has become arguably the most successful Puerto Rican player in NBA history. , the Guards' center. ``He always liked to make people happy. In a way, he's brought (these) families together'' These are trying times for the players at Bell-Jeff. The same day Jenkins died, the father of point guard Romel Cabrera died suddenly of a brain aneurysm brain aneurysm Cerebral aneurysm Neurology A dilated and weak segment of a cerebral artery, often located in the circle of Willis at the base of the brain, which is susceptible to rupture; BAs may be caused by birth defects or follow poorly controlled HTN Clinical . Two days later, assistant football coach Doug Brisky, 63, died of a heart attack. Last week the Guards played three games after attending funerals earlier in the day. The remainder of the week was spent going to memorials, grieving grieving Mourning, see there , crying and coping. ``When I first found out (about Jenkins' death) I thought it was just a dream,'' said Bell-Jeff guard Saul Que, who has known Jenkins since the third grade. ``Even at the memorial I thought I was still dreaming, I was crying so hard. I guess reality didn't really hit me until they closed the casket. Then it sort of set in.'' Sadly, reality set in three times for Bell-Jeff. Nobody is quite sure how they've pulled through. Yet somehow they found the strength to win the Miliken tournament championship. ``They went straight from the gravesite grave·site n. A place used for graves or a grave. to the gym three times,'' Essa said. ``In each case they started slowly, and at halftime I told them to toughen up and somehow find their way and they did. It's pretty remarkable.'' On Saturday Bell-Jeff laid Melo Cabrera, 43, to rest, then took Notre Dame Notre Dame IPA: [nɔtʁ dam] is French for Our Lady, referring to the Virgin Mary. In the United States of America, Notre Dame to overtime before losing 73-71. When Essa spoke to the players before the game, he had a motivational speech etched etch v. etched, etch·ing, etch·es v.tr. 1. a. To cut into the surface of (glass, for example) by the action of acid. b. out. But he changed course once he saw their somber som·ber adj. 1. a. Dark; gloomy. b. Dull or dark in color. 2. a. Melancholy; dismal: a somber mood. b. Serious; grave. , withdrawn expressions as they sat in the locker Things commonly known as lockers include:
``It just seemed like the last thing they wanted to do right then was play a basketball game,'' Essa said. ``So I basically just told them how proud I was of them, the way they'd handled everything, and that we're a family and I really didn't care what happened in the game, just to go out and play for Lawrence, and Melo and coach Brisky.'' The deaths of Jenkins and Melo Cabrera have hit Bell-Jeff especially hard. Most of the players never had dealt with losing a family member or close friend. In less then a week they suffered two tragedies, then the loss of Brisky, a popular coach. They stick together knowing that's how Jenkins would have wanted it. But it's tough. ``We just try to stay positive and think positive,'' said Que. ``We just keep thinking every time we step on the court to play for Lawrence and Romel's dad. That makes us hungry to get that win ... for them.'' Que and Arroyo wear Jenkins' jersey under their game and practice jerseys. The Guards have dedicated the remainder of the season to Jenkins and Melo Cabrera. ``Man, I've seen Lawrence wear that jersey since we were in the seventh grade,'' Que said, laughing. ``So now I'll wear it for him.'' As the players deal with the loss of Jenkins, they've rallied behind Romel Cabrera, a sophomore point guard. Remarkably, Cabrera played Saturday against Notre Dame after attending the funeral of his father, a popular parent at Bell-Jeff. Melo Cabrera owned an auto repair shop, and Que's father would often visit him there to talk basketball. ``We're right there behind him, but we try not to remind him about things so he can keep his mind off it,'' Arroyo said. ``We know he's hurting, but he's getting though it.'' They all are. |
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