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A FULL HOUSE OF MIRACLES, CHILDREN GIRLS HAD DEBILITATING ILLNESSES, BUT THE DEL ALTOS TREATED THEM WITH LOVE.


Byline: SUE DOYLE Staff Writer

LANCASTER -- The girls' adoptive a·dop·tive  
adj.
1.
a. Of or having to do with adoption.

b. Characteristic of adoption.

2. Related by adoption:
 names are tributes to the hardships they've overcome.

Heaven was born addicted to drugs. Serenity had a hole in her brain. Miracle needed a liver transplant liver transplant Hepatic transplant Transplant surgery A procedure that replaces a cancer conquered, metabolically defeated, or substance subjugated liver with one no longer required by its owner, many of whom donate same after an MVA Diseases requiring transplant .

And then there's Jozee, whose name doesn't follow the same ethereal ethereal /ethe·re·al/ (e-ther´e-il)
1. pertaining to, prepared with, containing, or resembling ether.

2. evanescent; delicate.


e·the·re·al
adj.
1.
 pattern as her sisters. Born Josephine, she nearly drowned at 8 months and suffered brain damage. Her adoptive parents adoptive parents Social medicine Persons who lawfully adopt children, who are generally married couples but may be single persons, including homosexuals; most APs are married  knew she might remember her birth name and didn't want to confuse her with a completely new one.

Born to transients, prisoners and teen moms, the girls got their starts in life in foster care. Medical conditions See carpal tunnel syndrome, computer vision syndrome, dry eyes and deep vein thrombosis.  made their ride through the hard-knock system even tougher. But that ride came to an end when they were adopted by foster parents Donna and Ernesto Del Alto of Lancaster.

``Maybe it was because I was in foster care,'' said Donna, explaining why she adopted the girls. ``I have a brother who is mentally retarded Noun 1. mentally retarded - people collectively who are mentally retarded; "he started a school for the retarded"
developmentally challenged, retarded
, and I think that's what drew me into it, too.''

Medical problems are not uncommon with foster care children, since many have faced abuse and neglect at the hands of their parents and caregivers. When they first enter the court system, about 80 percent have a chronic medical condition, such as asthma, failure to grow, or problems with seeing and hearing. Some have multiple illnesses.

The Del Alto girls represent a minority of foster care children who are deemed medically fragile and whose varying conditions require special care. There are as many as 400 of them among the 30,000 foster children living in Los Angeles Los Angeles (lôs ăn`jələs, lŏs, ăn`jəlēz'), city (1990 pop. 3,485,398), seat of Los Angeles co., S Calif.; inc. 1850.  County.

At 5, Jozee is the oldest of the four sisters and requires the most attention. Her birth mother, suspected of being on drugs, had left her alone in a bathtub. The damage sabotaged her brain, leaving her partially paralyzed par·a·lyze  
tr.v. par·a·lyzed, par·a·lyz·ing, par·a·lyz·es
1. To affect with paralysis; cause to be paralytic.

2. To make unable to move or act: paralyzed by fear.
 and unable to see or speak. Two years ago her throat became paralyzed after recurrent bouts of pneumonia.

The brown-haired Jozee lay in a recliner in the family's living room this week for a tube feeding tube feeding,
n a method for supplying liquid nutrition through a tube that passes through the nasal passages and into the stomach. This method is utilized when ingesting food through the oral cavity is inadvisable or painful due to surgery or injury.
. Her sisters touched her arm, talked softly to her and watched for any reactions. The child lifted her arms and hands from time to time, as if waving.

Donna sees Jozee's movements as signs of improvement. The activity confirms for her that she made the right decision for surgery to help Jozee breathe after the paralyzation par·a·lyze  
tr.v. par·a·lyzed, par·a·lyz·ing, par·a·lyz·es
1. To affect with paralysis; cause to be paralytic.

2. To make unable to move or act: paralyzed by fear.
. Doctors had discouraged the operation on the girl who they'd diagnosed as semi-comatose and had recommended that she die naturally.

``I said `save her,''' the 42-year-old said. ``She fought so hard to live. I don't feel she's ready to go.''

The Del Altos have been foster parents for 10 years. Along the way they learned of children in the system with severe medical conditions, ranging from cancer to Down syndrome Down syndrome, congenital disorder characterized by mild to severe mental retardation, slow physical development, and characteristic physical features. Down syndrome affects about 1 in every 730 live births and occurs in all populations equally. , who need foster parents. They were interested and wanted to help.

When children with severe medical conditions, such as cerebral palsy cerebral palsy (sərē`brəl pôl`zē), disability caused by brain damage before or during birth or in the first years, resulting in a loss of voluntary muscular control and coordination. , don't find foster parents, they're usually placed in pediatric pediatric /pe·di·at·ric/ (pe?de-at´rik) pertaining to the health of children.

pe·di·at·ric
adj.
Of or relating to pediatrics.
 facilities in hospitals where they receive round- the-clock supervision, said Jose L. Galindo, social worker for the Department of Children and Family Services.

Galindo said those with less debilitating de·bil·i·tat·ing
adj.
Causing a loss of strength or energy.


Debilitating
Weakening, or reducing the strength of.

Mentioned in: Stress Reduction
 conditions, such as diabetes, can live in other care facilities, such as homes that medical staffs regularly visit.

The thought of a sick child living without the comforts of a home troubled the Del Altos, who then became certified to take them in. Donna also enrolled in nursing school.

When the first foster call came through, it was to take in a baby with a broken bone in her hip. She was in a cast from the waist down. She wasn't in their care long before the baby's grandmother came forward to claim her.

Then Miracle came into their lives. They saw her in the hospital, bloated and with eyes and skin yellowing because her liver was malfunctioning mal·func·tion  
intr.v. mal·func·tioned, mal·func·tion·ing, mal·func·tions
1. To fail to function.

2. To function improperly.

n.
1. Failure to function.

2.
. When they learned she could die, the Del Altos weren't sure they wanted to take her home, wondering if their family could handle the heartache.

But the next day the couple visited her again at the hospital. This time they brought their children Tony, 23, Angel, 21, and Emmalee, 17. After explaining the circumstances of the sick baby who lay before them, they asked their kids what they should do.

``Take her,'' they said, shuddering that she could die alone.

But she thrived. As did Jozee, who came next, then Heaven and Serenity.

And while their medical conditions are under control for now, the girls could still face more difficulties in the future, including mental health problems, whether it's from trauma they endured as babies or possibly passed on genetically. Donna and Ernesto have taken classes in mental health and said they are ready to look for the signs as the girls get older.

So will they adopt more children?

At first Donna said no, but in the same breath she changed her answer to ``probably after I finish school.'' The couple is waiting to see if the girls have siblings in the system who are searching for permanent homes.

Sitting in a recliner, Ernesto grinned at the four girls while a Barney video played on the wide-screened TV in the living room. As the program played, 5-year-old Miracle danced across the floor while Serenity, 2, followed step. Heaven pulled a small suitcase into the room and pulled out a tiara, which she adjusted to fit her head.

Growing up in a family with 12 brothers and sisters, Ernesto said he's at home with all the commotion the kids make.

``What can you do?'' he said and shrugged. ``They all need love.''

sue.doyle(at)dailynews.com

(661)257-5254

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(1 -- color in Verb 1. color in - add color to; "The child colored the drawings"; "Fall colored the trees"; "colorize black and white film"
color, colorise, colorize, colour in, colourise, colourize, colour
 AV and SAC editions only) The adoptive parents of four girls, Donna and Ernesto Del Alto sit with Jozee, 5, left, Serenity, 2, Miracle, 5, and Heaven, 4. Two of their older children, Angel, 21, and Emmalee, 17, stand.

(2 -- ran in Valley edition only) Miracle, 5, got her name after surviving liver malfunction mal·func·tion
v.
1. To fail to function.

2. To function improperly.

n.
1. Failure to function.

2. Faulty or abnormal functioning.
.

(3 -- 4 -- ran in AV and SAC editions only) Above, Donna Del Alto kisses 5-year-old Jozee, her oldest adopted child who suffered brain damage after nearly drowning at 8 months. Left, Donna Del Alto braids Miracle's hair. The Del Altos found the youngster in the hospital, with eyes and skin yellowing because her liver was malfunctioning. When they learned she could die, they weren't sure if they could handle the heartache of taking her home. She lived.

(5 -- ran in AV edition only) Five-year-old Miracle has thrived under the care of Donna and Ernesto Del Alto of Lancaster. The couple have been foster parents for 10 years, taking in children with disabilities. They have adopted four of their wards, including Miracle and three other girls. The pair also have three grown children. Ernesto Del Alto grew up with 12 brothers and sisters and feels at home in a room full of kids.

Jeff Goldwater/Staff Photographer
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