'Tude about your dude! Your BFF doesn't exactly dig your BF? What's up with that?You and your crush are finally an item, but your BFF BFF Best Friends Forever (chat) BFF Best Foot Forward BFF Ben Folds Five (band) BFF Born Free Foundation BFF Binary File Format BFF Boston Film Festival BFF Biotech Finance Forum is suddenly icing him out completely. What's got her so down on him? Hmmm, let's check out some possibilities ... GREEN WITH ENVY Wouldn't you be a tad envious en·vi·ous adj. 1. Feeling, expressing, or characterized by envy: "At times he regarded the wounded soldiers in an envious way.... ? You're ga-ga over a great guy, he's whispering in your ear and--gosh!--she probably wishes she could feel that way, too. Why not invite your BFF to join you and your BF (and some of his dreamy dream·y adj. dream·i·er, dream·i·est 1. Resembling a dream; ethereal or vague. 2. Given to daydreams or reverie. 3. Soothing and serene. 4. friends) for pizza and a movie? Then, maybe you and your bud can do some scheming to get her hooked up with a cutie--'cause crushing is the fun part, remember? FEELIN' DISSED Of course, she's leering leer intr.v. leered, leer·ing, leers To look with a sidelong glance, indicative especially of sexual desire or sly and malicious intent. n. A desirous, sly, or knowing look. excluded if you're spending 'all your time with him. Carve out time for just you and your bud to do the stuff you've both always loved. Give her a sweet card inviting her over for a chick flick n. 1. A sentimental n. os>, movie. chick flick n (col) → filmetto rosa and pints of Haagen Dazs in your PJs to reassure her that a guy can never fill in for all those gal-pal good times. PLAYIN' PROTECTOR Maybe she knows something you don't. It's possible your BFF' heard something she can't bring herself to tell you. Perhaps he's talking trash behind your back or has another GE There's a chance he's el stinko stink·o adj. Slang 1. Intoxicated; drunk. 2. Of poor or inferior quality. [From stink.] and your true-blue's picking up his scent. If this could be the case, talk to your friend straight up. It could give her file open door she needs to spill. And brace yourself for something you might not want to hear. Better it come from a friend than the ferocious felines in the caf! FOR KEEPS Having a new BF is exciting and fun, but even the best of guys could never take the place your girl friends hold in your heart. Girls gotta stick together, so sorting things out with your best bud since kindergarten should be it the top of your pile of priorities. It often takes time and effort to keep a friendship sailing smoothly, but it's worth it. There may come a day when she's got a BF and you're stuck home alone eating Rocky Road. Think about it! |
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